What Income Counts Toward Child Support?
As a non-custodial parent, you will probably be required to pay child support in Pennsylvania. Pennsylvania’s child support guidelines are based on the “income shares” model, which uses the combined income of both parents, minus any applicable deductions. Even government benefits count toward this income, meaning that if you earn...
Read MoreHow to Estimate Child Support in Pennsylvania
In Pennsylvania, child support is intended to cover the entirety of a child’s needs. This includes food, clothing, shelter, and daycare needs, with a support obligation lasting until the child turns 18 years old or graduates from high school (whichever is later). Support payments are estimated based on the combined...
Read MoreChild Support Obligations in Shared Custody Cases
Shared physical custody occurs when there is a 50/50 split between both parents. In cases where parents share equal parenting time, the higher-earning parent will pay the other parent support. Although the law appears to take a “one-size-fits-all” approach, extenuating circumstances may warrant the court’s reconsideration of a support order....
Read MoreStep-by-Step Guide to Filing for Child Support in Pennsylvania
If you are raising a child and require financial assistance, you can file for child support against the child’s other parent. Filing for support requires that you provide various information, which can be time-consuming and even confusing. The court process can be intimidating, making you wonder if it is even...
Read MoreCan Biological Parents Revoke Adoption Consent in Pennsylvania?
If you are contemplating whether to place your child up for adoption, you deserve to understand the rights in your respective state. Understandably, this may be the most difficult decision of your life and one that should not be made lightly. By gaining familiarity with your parental rights, you can...
Read MoreTermination of Parental Rights Before Adoption in PA?
Regardless of the reason, the legal severance of parental rights must occur before a child can be legally adopted. Once parental rights are terminated, the parent will no longer have any rights or responsibilities to the child. The Commonwealth of Pennsylvania has two types of termination: voluntary and involuntary termination,...
Read MoreHow is Child Support Calculated in PA?
A parent’s obligation to financially provide for their child exists whether or not the parents are married. If you are dealing with a child support case, the amount of support must cover the entirety of your child’s needs. Child support must cover a broad range of the child’s necessities, including...
Read MoreHow to Modify Custody Without a Court Hearing
Courts do not modify custody orders without a compelling reason. While the original terms of your custody order may have worked following your divorce, life changes may necessitate a reconsideration. In Pennsylvania, a significant change in circumstances will prompt the court to modify an existing order. To obtain a custody...
Read MoreShared Custody vs. Sole Custody: Key Differences
The implications of a divorce can be devastating. In most circumstances, the court is tasked with determining which parent should have the ability to make major decisions about the child (legal custody) and who the child should spend the majority of their time with (physical custody). Typically, the terms of...
Read MoreDomestic Violence and Custody: What Parents Need to Know
Domestic violence is considered any pattern of behavior that seeks to control another person. Also known as domestic abuse, the court will consider any verbal or physical abuse when determining custody arrangements. If your former spouse has displayed any past or present signs of domestic abuse, you need to understand...
Read MoreThe Impact of a Child’s Age on Custody Arrangements
Pennsylvania courts consider a child’s age and level of maturity in deciding how much weight to give a child’s preference regarding their living arrangements. Even though it is up to the court to decide which parent a child will live with, children 14 years of age and older are allowed...
Read MoreWhat is Supervised Visitation in Child Custody Cases?
While you may hear of one parent being granted supervised visitation, you may not understand what that entails. In Pennsylvania, supervised visitation involves the noncustodial parent being allowed to visit the child only while supervised by a neutral party. Typically granted when the court believes the child’s safety is at...
Read MoreWhen Can a Child Choose Which Parent to Live With?
The process of getting a divorce can be emotionally draining, especially when children are involved. It is important that children feel seen and heard, especially when it comes to their living preferences. Although there is no specific age at which the court gives a child the right to choose which...
Read MoreOut-of-State Relocation with a Child After Divorce
Couples who choose to get divorced may do so in an effort to regain control of their life choices. While getting divorced may free you of your matrimonial ties, you do have a legal duty to inform the other parent if you plan on moving out of state with your...
Read MoreWhat to Do if a Parent Violates a Custody Order
A custody order is designed to care for the needs of a child. The court order designates a child’s living arrangements and how major decisions about the child’s upbringing will be made after a couple separates or divorces. While the document can be helpful in determining each parent’s roles and...
Read MoreDo Grandparents Have Custody or Visitation Rights in Pennsylvania?
With the prevalence of divorce, the traditional family consisting of two parents and their children living in the same household is becoming a thing of the past. What is important, above all else, is that children feel accepted, loved, and valued for what they have to offer to the world....
Read MoreWhat if Your Child Refuses Parenting Time?
When your child does not want to see their other parent, you must find out why they are refusing. Likewise, remember that courts mandate both parents to follow custody agreements. Unfortunately, inadvertently violating even a seemingly inconsequential condition you think may be in your child’s best interest can have legal...
Read MoreLegal Custody vs. Physical Custody
Among the first legal terms that you’ll learn are legal child custody and physical child custody when you have children and are considering divorce, going through a divorce, or gearing up for a custody battle. Legal terms being thrown around can feel confusing and intimidating during this very emotional and...
Read MoreWhat is Equitable Distribution in Pennsylvania?
Equitable distribution in a Pennsylvania divorce means the fair, not equal, division of marital assets and debts accumulated during your marriage. It’s not just about splitting accounts down the middle but about achieving a fair outcome based on your unique circumstances. Understanding this concept is crucial because how your property...
Read MoreWhat is the 90-Day Waiting Period for Divorce in Pennsylvania?
The 90-day waiting period in Pennsylvania divorces is a required pause between when divorce papers are filed and when you and your spouse can officially consent to the divorce. This window gives both of you a chance to reflect, negotiate, and prepare before the divorce progresses. It might feel frustrating...
Read MoreCan I Still Be Awarded Alimony if I’ve Been Married for a Short Time?
Pennsylvania courts have broad discretion in awarding alimony – also called spousal support – during and after divorce proceedings. With the right Harrisburg alimony attorney on your side from Purdy Law Office, LLC, you might still be awarded alimony even if you’ve only been married for a short time. This...
Read MoreWhat Should I Do if My Spouse is Hiding Assets?
Hiding assets in anticipation of and during divorce is not lawful in Pennsylvania if it’s done with the intent to defraud. However, your spouse may get away with it if you do not immediately retain an experienced Harrisburg asset distribution attorney from Purdy Law Office, LLC. Common Reasons to Hide...
Read MoreWhat Happens if One Spouse Doesn’t Respond to Divorce Papers?
It’s not uncommon for one spouse to either intentionally or carelessly fail to respond to divorce papers in Harrisburg. Your spouse only has twenty (20) days from the date he or she is served to either file a pro se response or retain a divorce lawyer, and even that can...
Read MoreHow Long Does a Divorce Take to Finalize?
Deciding to end your marriage is a difficult decision, but when you do, you’re often ready to move forward as quickly as possible. How long it takes for a divorce to finalize in Harrisburg – generally through the Dauphin County Court of Common Pleas – depends on the unique facts...
Read MoreDo Both Parents Have a Legal Obligation to Support Their Child in Harrisburg?
When a married couple decides to separate or divorce, the court mandates that each parent provide financially for their child or children. If either parent fails to adhere to court-ordered child support, then the individual may be found in contempt of court. In this blog, our Harrisburg child support lawyers...
Read MoreWhat Expenses Does Child Support Cover in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania?
As a parent, you want to be actively involved in the upbringing of your child, even if your marriage with your spouse has come to an end. Pennsylvania courts require each parent to contribute financially to their children to ensure that their basic needs are met. Since the custodial parent...
Read MoreCan Child Support Agreements Be Negotiated Outside of Court in Harrisburg?
As a parent, you want your child to have access to the financial resources necessary for their development. Whereas agreements pertaining to child support can be reached in court, oftentimes, parents want to avoid court fees and other costs. In these situations, divorcing spouses may choose to resolve the matter...
Read MoreWhat is Mediation, and How Does it Work in Pennsylvania Family Law Cases?
During mediation, a neutral party will work with divorcing spouses to help them come to a resolution surrounding issues regarding child custody, support, alimony, and property division. Mediation allows a couple to discuss their issues in a calm atmosphere, with a mediator facilitating communication between the two persons. If you...
Read MoreWhat Happens if a Parent Fails to Pay Child Support?
The Commonwealth of Pennsylvania requires that both parents financially support their child or children. Typically established by the court, a child support order is a mandatory payment that is paid on a regular basis, usually monthly. Generally, the noncustodial parent is usually ordered to pay child support to the child’s...
Read MoreCan Child Support Orders Be Modified in Harrisburg, and Under What Circumstances?
Child support is generally a court order that requires that you pay the child’s other parent a certain amount of support on a periodic basis. However, if you have experienced a substantial change in circumstances, you may motion the court to modify an existing order. To get a modification, you...
Read MoreHow is Child Support Calculated in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania?
Pennsylvania courts believe that both parents should contribute to a child’s financial well-being. To fairly share fiscal responsibility, support payments are primarily based on both parents’ combined net income, the number of children needing support, and the amount of time the child spends with each parent. Although a complex formula...
Read MoreCan Alimony or Spousal Support Be Awarded in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania?
Although you may not be the breadwinner, nobody should remain in an unhappy marriage for fear of financial ruin. While a court may award alimony to the lower-earning spouse following a divorce, it is not guaranteed. Although alimony may be awarded in the short term, the court generally wants to...
Read MoreWhat are the Benefits of Choosing Mediation Over Litigation in Pennsylvania?
In 2023, the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania experienced just over 28,000 divorces, a divorce rate of 2.4%. While relatively low compared to other states, if you and your spouse are parting ways, you want to ensure that the terms you and your partner agree are sustainable. If you and your spouse...
Read MoreWho Can Be a Mediator in Pennsylvania, and How Do I Choose One?
Mediation is becoming a popular method of alternative dispute resolution (ADR), especially in family law matters. It allows spouses to maintain control over their situation and make decisions that are best for their family. Mediation is typically a relaxed process entered into voluntarily by both parties. If either party wants...
Read MoreIs Mediation Legally Binding in Pennsylvania?
If you and your spouse are considering mediation, there are essential aspects you should be aware of before making a final decision. In Pennsylvania, mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that allows couples to meet with a neutral third party to reach a mutual agreement. The details of...
Read MoreWhen is Mediation Not Appropriate or Likely to Be Unsuccessful in Pennsylvania?
At face value, divorce appears to be the formal process by which a couple terminates their union. Many fail to realize that issues regarding property division, alimony, child support, and child custody must be decided upon. Many couples willing to hear the other side’s perspective prefer to resolve their issues...
Read MoreHow Long Does It Take to Get a Divorce in Harrisburg, PA?
Nobody goes into a marriage anticipating that the union will fail. Oftentimes, the unexpected may occur, resulting in a couple choosing to part ways. Depending on the circumstances behind your divorce, you can expect your divorce to take between 9 months to one year to be finalized. Outliers depend on...
Read MoreWhat is the Process for Dividing Property During a Divorce in Harrisburg?
As a married couple, you strive to support one another in business endeavors and personal ambitions. This support system typically ends upon the dissolution of your marital union. Knowing the laws of your state is crucial in determining how property will be distributed since each state has different laws regarding...
Read MoreHow Does Child Custody and Visitation Work During a Divorce in Harrisburg?
Your child’s health, safety, and happiness mean the world to you. Upon getting a divorce, you may feel uneasy and concerned about not being able to see your child daily. At Purdy Law Office, we understand the stress you are under regarding your child’s living arrangements and general welfare. Our...
Read MoreDo I Need a Lawyer for a Divorce in Harrisburg, PA?
Choosing to terminate your marriage can be an emotional time, requiring you to make decisions regarding child support, custody, visitation, alimony, and property division. It is almost impossible for anyone to be impartial when handling such personal matters, making looking out for your best interests difficult. If you are considering...
Read MoreWhat Are the Grounds for Divorce in Pennsylvania?
The State of Pennsylvania offers divorces that are both no-fault and fault-based. While the vast majority of divorces in the state and throughout the nation are no-fault, which means the marriage is irretrievably broken, there are situations in which pursuing a divorce based on your spouse’s wrongdoing makes sense and...
Read MoreHow Is Child Custody Determined in Pennsylvania?
While every child custody case is unique and legally complex, the matter boils down to the children’s best interests in the context of the parent’s rights and the circumstances involved. If you’re facing a divorce that involves shared children, a child custody modification, or a child custody case outside of...
Read MoreHow Is Property Divided during a Divorce in Pennsylvania?
Every divorcing couple must address the matter of property division, and it’s a legally complex matter. If you’re facing a Pennsylvania divorce, property division is of critical concern. And because your financial rights are on the line, it’s in your best interest to work closely with a savvy Harrisburg divorce...
Read MoreDo Grandparents Have Rights to Visitation in Pennsylvania?
Grandparents often play a vital role in their grandchildren’s lives, but grandparents’ rights to visitation with their grandchildren are secondary to the rights of the children’s parents – except when highly specific extenuating circumstances apply. Under certain conditions, grandparents do have some rights to visitation in the State of Pennsylvania,...
Read MoreWhat Steps Can I Take to Modify a Child Custody Order?
Child custody orders in Pennsylvania are based on the children’s best interests, and while modifications are possible, they must be based on a substantial change in circumstances, which means they aren’t made on a whim or simply because a parent wants more time with the kids. If you need a...
Read MoreWhat is a Prenuptial Agreement, and Are They Enforceable in Pennsylvania?
A prenuptial agreement is a business contract between two spouses-to-be that outlines how assets, property, and debt will be divided in the event of divorce. The Commonwealth of Pennsylvania does recognize prenuptial agreements, and they are most often enforced by the court. Our Harrisburg, PA, family law attorneys are here...
Read MoreHow does Pennsylvania Handle Child Support Calculations?
Calculating child support in Pennsylvania can be a complicated process, but it is imperative that you obtain a fair order based on proper calculations. The state follows a specific formula outlined in the Pennsylvania support guidelines, which take into account various factors, all of which must be accurate. Determining child...
Read MoreWhat are the Grounds for Divorce in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania?
Divorce cases in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, involve numerous factors and legal issues you must consider. One key issue is the grounds for divorce, and the grounds cited will play a major role in how the divorce case unfolds. This is an important matter if you are filing or responding to a...
Read MoreHow Can I Legally Change My Child’s Name in Pennsylvania?
A parent may request that a child’s name be changed in an effort to begin a new chapter in life. Parents should be aware that the court makes the final ruling on whether to grant a name change and that notice of the court proceedings must be provided to both...
Read MoreWhat Are Protection from Abuse (PFA) Orders, and How Can I Obtain One?
Protection from abuse orders (PFAs) are intended to protect those who are suffering abuse at the hands of someone with whom they share a domestic relationship of some kind. If you need a PFA to protect yourself, the time to act is right now, and an experienced Harrisburg protection from...
Read MoreWhat Are My Rights Regarding Adoption in Pennsylvania?
Adoption is a beautiful way to grow your family, but the legalities can be daunting. If you’re preparing to adopt, knowing your rights and protecting them is key. In fact, one of the most important steps anyone in your position can take is consulting with an experienced Harrisburg adoption attorney...
Read MoreThe Impact of Spousal Identity Theft on Divorce Proceedings in Pennsylvania
The sacred bond of marriage is built on the foundation of trust, sharing lives, and often, sharing financial responsibilities. But what happens when that trust is broken in the most egregious way? Spousal identity theft is a startling, yet rarely discussed phenomenon that can have far-reaching consequences in divorce proceedings,...
Read MoreNavigating the Emotional Turmoil of Divorce and Custody Battles: The Importance of Individual Counseling
Divorce and custody litigation can be among the most emotionally challenging experiences in a person’s life. The process not only involves legal complexities but also brings to the surface a myriad of emotions, including grief, anger, anxiety, and fear. In such turbulent times, individual counseling can be a crucial support...
Read MoreWhy Collaborative Law Makes Sense in Custody Cases: A Guide for Potential Family Law Clients
Going through custody litigation can be one of the most challenging and emotionally draining experiences for any parent. The traditional litigation process can often exacerbate the situation, leading to increased conflict and stress for all parties involved, including the children. This is where collaborative law comes in as a viable...
Read MoreAdjusting to a Single Income After Divorce: A Guide for New Beginnings
Divorce is not just an emotional upheaval but also a significant financial transition. Moving from a dual-income household to a single income can be daunting. However, with careful planning and a strategic approach, you can navigate this new financial landscape successfully. Here are some key steps to help you adjust...
Read MoreIf I Get Divorced, Will I Be Ruined Financially?
Divorce is a significant life event that can have substantial financial implications for both parties involved. For many facing this transition, the concern about financial ruin is paramount. However, understanding how Pennsylvania law addresses the financial aspects of divorce can help alleviate some of these fears. This blog aims to...
Read MoreUnderstanding Paternity Laws in Pennsylvania: A Guide for Parents
Navigating the legal landscape of paternity can be challenging for parents in Pennsylvania. Whether you’re a mother seeking child support or a father wanting to establish a relationship with your child, understanding paternity laws is crucial. This blog aims to provide a comprehensive overview of paternity laws in Pennsylvania to...
Read MoreThe High Rate of Divorce Following the Holidays
A study by the University of Washington identified a spike in divorce filings in the first three months of the year. Several factors can influence when couples decide to pursue divorce. If you’re considering seeking a divorce after the holidays, you should familiarize yourself with the following tips and suggestions...
Read MoreWhat Happens When Divorced Parents Disagree on Where to Send Their Child to School?
One of the hardest parts about getting divorced and sharing children with your ex-spouse is the decision-making process. It’s common to hit a wall when making decisions for your children together, including where the kids should go to school. Fortunately, a custody attorney can help. Can Both Parents Make Decisions...
Read MoreWho Gets the House in a Divorce?
Property division is one of the most important matters you’ll deal with in your divorce. Among the many kinds of property and assets you may have to split with your spouse, deciding what to do with your marital home can be a point of contention, depending on the situation. Your...
Read MoreUnderstanding Child Support in Pennsylvania
Child support is a hot-button issue in many divorces. It’s a matter that is best resolved with a skilled Pennsylvania child support attorney on your side. Pennsylvania has developed child support calculation guidelines as outlined in the federal Child Support Enforcement Act. These guidelines take into consideration the following: Needs...
Read More3 back-to-school tips for newly separated or divorced parents
Back-to-school season is just around the corner, and that brings additional challenges for co-parents who are newly separated or divorced. While it can be difficult to set aside all the negative feelings associated with your situation, working with your ex-partner to make the back-to-school process smoother will benefit your children...
Read More4 tips for using social media during your divorce
Many people use their social media to depict themselves as belonging to a particular social class. The rest of us try to be more honest, though few truly document the daily lows as well as the highs. But when something as big as a divorce happens, it can be very...
Read MoreFiling for Divorce? Get A Handle on Your Finances First
When we think of filing for divorce, often the first thing that comes to mind is the emotional toll of ending a marriage. And divorce is certainly an emotional process. But divorce also has a financial impact on a divorcing couple, and it is best to get a clear picture...
Read MoreAt What Age is a Child’s Parental Preference Considered in Custody Cases?
Unlike some states, Pennsylvania law does not designate an age in which a child’s parental preferences will be taken into consideration in custody disputes. This means that a child’s parental preference may be considered by the judge presiding over your case at any age. Officially, children cannot decide which parent...
Read MoreReasons to consider mediation for your divorce
Going through a divorce is a painful, exhausting process for anyone. Whatever the reason- it takes its toll on the parties divorcing. If they have children, things get more complicated, and the parties must balance many things simultaneously. In addition to the emotional toll that divorce takes on the family,...
Read MoreWhy people break child custody agreements
Child custody agreements outline the rights of both parents, including who has physical and legal custody, visitation and other rights. In many cases, judges seek to build fair agreements where the child spends equal time with both parents. However, these agreements differ based on the case and jurisdiction. Therefore, parents...
Read MoreThinking about your adult children in a gray divorce
If you and your spouse are heading for divorce and you share adult children, there are many factors for you to consider. Your adult children may struggle with your divorce more than you expect and there are several ways you can help them as your family transitions to your new...
Read MoreCo-parenting tips for supporting your kids during the school year
Parenting is a challenging job. When you and your co-parent are in separate households, managing the expectations of each other and your children can be difficult. While you and your co-parent want what is best for your children, you may not always agree on how to help them reach their...
Read MoreWhat is the first step in the divorce process?
As in other states, in Pennsylvania divorcing couples generally pursue either an uncontested or contested process for ending their marriage. In an uncontested divorce, the couple comes to an agreement outside of court on matters like property division, child custody and spousal support. In a contested divorce, spouses are not...
Read MoreIs financial infidelity a reason to get divorced?
Getting married comes with a certain amount of trust. While you may have some degree of separation in your lives, marriage implies that you will be loyal to each other as you live your lives together. Addressing financial matters before you get married can be a complex conversation. You and...
Read MoreWhat do people consider most when deciding on the future of a relationship?
What factors influence a person’s decision to move forward in a relationship or to end it? Not everyone considers the future of their relationship in an overly formal or even conscious way. However, anyone who is dating or married is probably aware that certain issues have the ability to sway...
Read More3 ways to protect your mental health during divorce
When you decided to get divorced, you likely recognized the process would be difficult. But you may not have fully understood how the process could impact your mental health. According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, approximately 1 in 4 adults in the U.S. experience a mental illness every year. The following...
Read MoreDoes social media use raise the risk for divorce?
Are apps like Instagram bad for your marriage? A study published in the journal Computers and Human Behavior analyzed the impact of social media site use on marriage and divorce. Review the research about how spending time on social media could affect the health of your relationship, for better or...
Read MoreHow Co-Parents Can Prevent Disputes Over Gift Giving
The holidays bring about good feelings for many. However, for single parents, holiday gift-giving may cause stress and anger. Disputes between co-parents may escalate as gift-giving events approach. One parent may feel pressure to keep up with the other parent’s spending. Gift duplication may prove a real prospect and cause...
Read More3 fatherly essentials for dads raising kids out of wedlock
If you are the father of a child who you share with someone you have never married, you are far from alone. In 2019, more than a million infants were born out of wedlock in the United States. With that said, there are some unique challenges that you may face...
Read MoreWhat happens when co-parents can’t agree on their child’s medical treatment?
Divorced parents often have to work together to determine what is best for their children, especially if they have joint legal custody. However, when a child needs medical treatment and neither co-parent can agree on how to proceed, what should they do? When co-parenting, both parties can typically resolve minor...
Read MoreHow to know if marriage counseling will work for you
If you and your spouse have noticed a decline in your relationship and the overall quality of your marriage, you may have thought of trying marriage counseling. If you both want your relationship to continue, couple’s therapy can help you strengthen your bond while working through your conflicts. A marriage...
Read MoreHow should you tell your grandchildren about your divorce?
Divorce rates are on the rise among Americans ages 55 and older. The oldest generations face challenges when they decide to end their marriages, and this often includes not only deciding how to tell their children, but how to reassure their grandchildren as well. If you and your spouse have...
Read MoreHow to build a successful co-grandparenting relationship after a divorce
If you have adult children, you may worry about how your kids may take the news of your divorce. Fortunately, they are likely to adjust to your post-divorce situation eventually. When your children have children, though, you want to be sure you and your ex-spouse can co-grandparent successfully. Even if...
Read More3 FAQs about settling a divorce out of court
If you are like many Americans facing divorce, you may have serious concerns about how the court process will affect your family as well as your finances. Divorce litigation can be time-consuming, expensive and contentious. Mediated and collaborative divorce are two forms of alternative dispute resolution that may help you...
Read MoreFinding happiness for divorcees over 50
A divorce is never an easy option for a Pennsylvania resident who chooses to end their marital union. However, the complications that come with a divorce can be more dramatic for some divorcees than others. One group that needs to plan for potential complications before securing a divorce is couples...
Read MoreDo Pennsylvania child custody laws need to be strengthened to protect children from harm?
Pennsylvania’s Senate Bill 868 seeks to strengthen child custody and visitation laws. As reported by WESB News, SB868 presents legislation designed to ensure courts consider signs of potential abuse in child custody cases. The bill intends to bring about expanded guidelines to spot issues that may endanger a child’s safety....
Read MoreWhy are gray divorces increasing?
Gray divorces, or divorces for those over the age of 50, are on the rise. There are a variety of different reasons couples over the age of 50 divorce and it is important for divorcing couples over 50 and of all ages to be prepared for what to expect from...
Read MoreWhy are gray divorces becoming more common?
Decades ago, getting divorced when you were over the age of 40 was practically unthinkable. But in recent years, gray divorce has been on the rise. In fact, studies have shown that 25% of divorces involve people who are age 50 or older. It’s hard to point to one specific...
Read MoreWhat are the options for dividing a family home during divorce?
Figuring out what to do with the family home during divorce can be daunting. For that reason, divorcing couples should be familiar with the options available to them through the property division process. Here are some options for dividing a home during divorce. Sell the home and divide the proceeds...
Read MoreReasons and issues in divorces among older adults
With divorce on the rise among people over 50, older adults in Pennsylvania might be more likely to get a divorce than younger ones. There are several possible reasons that people might do so after decades of marriage. Finances are a common source of conflict between couples, and this can...
Read MoreNavigating the financial factors of divorce
Money is a major factor in your life like other individuals in Pennsylvania. You and your spouse have spent years saving to purchase the perfect family home, to have a family and to create a retirement plan that will allow the two of you to retire by a certain age...
Read MoreMore time together may mean more reasons to divorce
Stress is a detrimental factor that plagues many divorces. Throughout Pennsylvania, married people may find that it is harder to get along with their partners when they are worried about job security, money, health challenges, and even vacations and holidays. When individuals spend longer periods of time with their spouses,...
Read MoreKeep an eye on your finances during the divorce process
Divorce is never easy, but it is a time where it is important to keep an eye on your finances. This may not be the first thing you think about when your marriage is crumbling, but it is a move that can help you as you work through the divorce...
Read MoreHow to track down hidden assets in a divorce
One of the ways that a Pennsylvania spouse ends up shortchanged during the divorce is when their spouse hides assets during the settlement process. As a result, one must be vigilant to make sure that they are receiving the full picture when their spouse declares assets. Spouses will hide assets...
Read MoreHow to talk to your children about your divorce
Are your kids the most important thing to you? If so, then you’re probably worried about how breaking the news of divorce will affect them. It’s a legitimate concern because children thrive in stable and secure and environments, and a divorce threatens the very foundation of those characteristics. Additionally, many...
Read MoreHow to talk to young children about divorce
When people Pennsylvania go through a divorce there are many changes that will take place in their lives. They will no longer be sharing one life together and will now have two separate lives. This is true for the couple’s children, too. Divorce can be particularly difficult on children as...
Read MoreHow to cope after a marriage ends
It is estimated that up to half of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce. While a divorce may be an emotionally painful event to experience, there are things that Pennsylvania residents and others can do to move past it. For example, individuals should focus on what...
Read MoreHow couples should ready their finances when facing divorce
For couples who are filing for divorce in Pennsylvania and across the United States, the process can be taxing both emotionally and financially. Amid the upheaval of divorce, couples should be proactive about preparing themselves financially now and in the future. Once a couple knows that divorce is imminent, they...
Read MoreDivorce and privacy
The reasons for ending a marriage are deeply personal, and often deeply painful, and yet if a divorce goes through the courts, it will be at least partly public record. There are good reasons for the public record in general; a good judicial system operates with transparency. However, sometimes people...
Read MoreAddressing divorce and parents interfering with parenting time
When Pennsylvania couples divorce, child custody and parenting time can be a challenge. In many cases, they work together for the good of the children. In others, there is disagreement, and problems such as parenting time interference will crop up. Direct and indirect parenting time interference Parents might obstruct the...
Read More401K accounts and property division settlements
From joint debts to family homes to hard-earned retirement savings, the range of things that a couple must figure out how to address when getting a divorce seems to have no end. Even though a 401K account is held in one spouse’s name only, it may well be identified as...
Read MoreHow do you break news of divorce to your child?
Pennsylvania parents like you value your child’s health and happiness above all else. Unfortunately, it is not always easy to ensure that your child’s well-being stays maintained. There are some situations in which it is incredibly hard to put their mental health first. Divorce is one of those situations. If...
Read MoreHow can co-parent collaboration help your child through divorce?
A Pennsylvania parent like you will do anything for your child. You work hard to keep them happy, healthy and safe. You want to mitigate any hardships and struggles they may face. But what happens when you are the cause of the hardship? This is the situation many divorcing parents...
Read MoreCensus bureau reports decline in Pennsylvania divorce rates
Earlier this year, the U.S. Census Bureau reported a decline in divorce rates across the nation from 2008 to 2018. In the same 10-year period, divorce rates dropped even further in Pennsylvania than in the U.S. Looking at these trends offers some ideas about why marriages tend to last longer...
Read MoreRaising a happy child after a divorce
If you are thinking about delaying a divorce for the sake of your children, you may have nothing to worry about. Research has shown that children in Pennsylvania and throughout the country can still have normal lives even after their parents split. In some cases, staying in a toxic marriage...
Read MoreWhy a parent might show up late for a custody exchange
Pennsylvania law typically allows parents to have custody or visitation rights to their children after a divorce or breakup. However, it can be challenging to work with your child’s other parent after a romantic relationship comes to an end. For example, your ex may consistently show up late to a...
Read MoreValidating your child’s emotions during your divorce
The transition from having two parents under one roof to only having one may cause emotional distress for your children in Pennsylvania. While divorce is certainly not easy for anyone involved, your children may lack the maturity and understanding to comprehend why things have changed so rapidly. Validating your children’s...
Read MoreParenting time interference and failures
Pennsylvania courts take parenting time orders seriously. When a parent fails to uphold his or her end of the agreement or order or interferes with the other parent’s parenting time rights, the court may take several remedial actions. Interfering with the other parent’s parenting time may result in the court...
Read MoreMinimizing the impact of 401(k) division during divorce
Past posts on this blog detailed the potential long-term financial impact divorce can have on one’s life (including their retirement plans). Indeed, many people often feel blindsided when they enter into the property division portion of their divorce proceedings and discover that their 401(k) accounts are subject to division (or,...
Read MoreWhy is gray divorce becoming more common?
The consensus among those who follow divorce statistics is that, as the divorce rate drops among younger people, couples over 50 are turning to it more and more frequently. So-called gray divorce has roughly doubled over the last generation. In 1990, 5 out of every 1,000 married people over 50...
Read MoreSelecting a real estate agent in a divorce
With divorce comes a change in your living arrangements, as you move from married life to life as a single individual. When a couple in Pennsylvania divorces, sometimes they decide to sell their family home and split the proceeds. Other times, one spouse will move out of their marital residence...
Read MoreDivorce rates for couples with a huge difference in ages
Romantic relationships in Pennsylvania and elsewhere that involve couples with a significant age difference between them are sometimes referred to as May-December romances. Like most love affairs, May-December relationships may start with a great deal of romance. The bad news is that recent studies show that these types of marriages...
Read MoreParallel parenting as a solution for toxic co-parenting
Like any parent in Pennsylvania, you want what is best for your children. While your intentions are there, putting these thoughts into action is not always easily accomplished. A divorce can significantly muddy the water between parents, making it challenging for you are your former spouse to function as a...
Read MoreKey issues to think about before moving forward with a divorce
Couples in the Harrisburg area and the surrounding areas of Pennsylvania can face challenges in maintaining a healthy marriage. Many unions can be salvaged with improved communication, lifestyle changes, understanding and perspective. Still, many marriages have reached their natural end and people can no longer stay together. When thinking about...
Read MoreFollow the money in divorce
Ending a marriage can upset many parts of your life, especially your finances. You should take several precautions from when you seriously begin to think about divorce until after the decree is issued to protect your finances and your rights. First, document any conversations you have about divorce. Change all...
Read MoreFactors courts consider when determining custody
Divorce is almost always difficult, but it can be made even more challenging when you have children with your soon-to-be ex. When making child custody decisions, the courts will focus on the best interests of the child. In order to determine what those are, the court will consider a number...
Read MoreDivorce can make some people happy
A divorce can have an emotional and financial impact on your life. However, a survey conducted by Carphone Warehouse found that individuals in Pennsylvania and elsewhere who have gotten divorced can find happiness again. The study polled more than 2,000 people to learn more about how they felt after their...
Read MoreCo-parenting and the challenge of celebrating birthdays
After a Pennsylvania divorce, co-parenting is often one of the biggest challenges that parents face. Along with making decisions about the child’s schooling, medical care, religious upbringing and extracurricular activities, celebrating special events and holidays can be problematic. There are many factors to consider in these circumstances. Parents may debate...
Read MoreWhat to do about parental alienation
Co-parents in Pennsylvania must work together for the good of the children. Even if you and the other parent do not get along, there are certain minimum basic expectations for the co-parenting relationship that cannot be violated. One of these is that you are free to have a relationship with...
Read MoreTips for relocating after a custody order is in place
When parents divorce, they will hopefully remain geographically close so that both parents are able to spend time with the children. However, there are circumstances that may make relocating the best option for the children. Parents in Pennsylvania who want to relocate after a child custody order is in place...
Read MoreAssessing your finances before choosing to divorce
Before asking for a divorce, the spouse thinking of divorce must decide if that is truly what they want, from both an emotional and financial perspective. While the emotional side of whether or not to ask for a divorce is nebulous, the financial perspective can be more objective. Further, assessing...
Read MoreProtect your credit before a divorce by taking these steps
When couples start thinking about divorce, they may be more focused on their emotions than on their finances. Because of this, many people find that their credit score drops significantly after their divorce and will continue to negatively affect them for years after the divorce. Approximately 38 percent of people...
Read MoreHaving a co-parent schedule can maintain consistency
When getting a divorce, most Pennsylvania residents understand that their decisions will affect more people than just them. In particular, parents know that their children may face challenges as well. As a result, many parents choose to focus on co-parenting in the hopes of maintaining consistency and ensuring the well-being...
Read MoreWhat does healthy co-parenting look like?
Making decisions with regards to a child’s upbringing is difficult enough when the parents are married to one another and have a generally healthy relationship. When a Pennsylvania couple divorces and now has to agree on matters such as which holiday will be spent with which parent and which religion...
Read MoreStudy finds women face more challenges in divorce after 50
Divorce rates in the U.S. have been steadily dropping for the last two decades – at least for younger couples. But within that same timeframe, the divorce rate for those after age 50 has doubled since 1990. The phenomenon – nicknamed “gray divorce” – could be attributed to a variety...
Read MoreMaking co-parenting work for the parents and the child
Co-parenting is a common child custody arrangement in Pennsylvania. It often provides both parents with an opportunity to remain active in the child’s life while avoiding the intense stress that can be inflicted by traditional child support orders. Nevertheless, many Pennsylvanians enter into a co-parenting arrangement without being fully aware...
Read MoreAdvice for co-parenting with a difficult ex
When you share custody of a child after a divorce, you’ll have to maintain some sort of a relationship with your ex-spouse. Some people maintain the bare minimum required for coordinating visits, while others must engage in more involved interaction to co-manage medications, health, and social obligations. While many couples...
Read MoreHow is alimony determined in a Pennsylvania divorce?
Alimony is a payment made by one former spouse to the other former spouse following divorce. It is designed to address economic or financial inequity between the former spouses but is a divorce-related topic that can quickly grow contentious. As a result, it is helpful for divorcing couples to know...
Read MoreAvoid divorce litigation with the ADR process
Those involved in or worried about a contentious divorce proceeding should know that there are alternatives to litigation. Pennsylvania family law disputes can be resolved amicably through a negotiated settlement, which our law firm encourages. Our attorneys have specialized training to reach negotiated settlements through a process known as, Alternative...
Read More3 mistakes to avoid making during a divorce
Divorce can be an extremely stressful process. Emotions are running high and it can be hard to focus on what needs to be done. During this emotional time, mistakes are common. Although they’re common, it will affect your divorce for the worse. Below are three commonly made mistakes during divorce...
Read MoreHow to protect a retirement account in divorce
For the past 20 years, divorce rates for people over age 50 have steadily risen. Citing financial management reasons, addiction, infidelity, and more, “grey divorce” can cause seniors no small amount of stress. An older spouse considering divorce likely has many questions about the legal consequences of their divorce. Splitting...
Read MoreWhat should I expect from the property division process?
In Pennsylvania, property is divided equitably when a couple decides to divorce. What exactly that means may be different for each couple so it is helpful for divorcing couples to have a handle on the basics of property division. Equitable property division refers to dividing property in a manner that...
Read MoreHow to make divorce manageable
There is no reason to sugarcoat the truth; divorce is difficult for all involved. Though it’s never their fault, children may blame themselves for the split and will need reassurance that it had nothing to do with them. Children will also wonder where mom or dad went, and if they’ll...
Read MoreAre men or women more likely to initiate divorce?
Marriage provides the opportunity to build a life with someone you love. Some choose to raise a family, some prefer a lifetime of experiences without being tied down, and other couples decide to attack both options. Marriage is a path of trials and triumphs. For some people, the trials become...
Read MoreWhen your ex can’t stick to the visitation schedule
After your divorce, your custody agreement and visitation schedule legally outline how you and your ex will care and provide for your children. It takes two parents and a great deal of flexibility to make a child visitation plan successful. But what do you do if your ex isn’t sticking...
Read MoreMulti-state divorce
It’s hard enough to go through a divorce in Pennsylvania. Imagine going through a divorce in multiple states. Generally, divorce falls under state law, and every state has its own set of divorce laws, with their own procedures, deadlines and requirements. While many of these are very similar, some can...
Read MoreUnderstanding the basics about child custody
For parents in Pennsylvania who are going through a divorce, there is oftentimes one primary issue that can keep them up at night as the case is pending: child custody. After all, parents always want what is best for their children. However, what that is, exactly, is sometimes a contentious...
Read MorePennsylvania focuses parenting plans on the child’s best interest
In deciding child custody arrangements after a breakup, Pennsylvania’s family courts have guidelines to follow required by state law. You and your ex may have issues involving complex, changing and competing factors, of course. But, as required by law, the judge’s rock-solid focus when making decisions will be the best...
Read MoreReducing the effect of divorce on your children
If you are sitting at home thinking about ending your marriage, then you’re probably concerned about a lot of things: breaking the news to your spouse, dividing marital assets, and facing the uncertainty of a new beginning. Yet, your primary worry might be focused on how divorce will affect your...
Read MoreDon’t let drug use and domestic violence damage your child
Your relationship with your children is precious. If you’re like most people, then you’d do just about anything to keep your children safe, which may not be the easiest thing to do when your children spends time with their other parent. If you have legitimate concerns about your children’s well-being...
Read MoreAge is a big factor in today’s divorce rates
Statistics show a decline in divorce over the past decade. Those numbers have a lot of factors at play behind them, but a fascinating piece of the puzzle is the age at which people are divorcing today. As millennials have aged, they’ve also bumped up the average age of a...
Read MoreHow divorce may impact your long-term financial plans
Divorce has a way of affecting all areas of life. When it comes to your finances, such topics like property division and alimony may have you confused and wondering how your future will look after the dust settles. Here is some information, as well as a few tips, you may...
Read MoreHave the Four Horsemen found your marriage?
They’re better known as a biblical metaphor for the end of the world, but the fabled Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse have received a modern revival, courtesy of relationship expert John Gottman. Dr. Gottman’s approach to marriage analysis includes defining four communication styles, which he calls the Four Horsemen. Their...
Read MoreCan a lack of civility jeopardize your divorce outcome?
Divorce can bring out the worst in the best of people. When a marriage ends, spouses who have loved and supported each other for years often find themselves without one good thing to say about the other. Those negative feelings can reach a breaking point, prompting someone to let loose...
Read MoreWomen more likely than men to feel happy after divorce
Divorce can be ugly. But some women may come out stronger on the other side. According to a recent report, women may be twice as likely to be happy after a divorce. That’s according to a survey in the U.K., which examined more than 2000 divorced adults. Results showed that...
Read MoreWho will get custody of pets in a divorce?
Your pet is not property. You likely consider your pet as part of your family. So, the guardianship of your pet may be a top priority as you begin working through divorce arrangements with your ex-spouse. You may even consider it more important than matters like asset division or alimony....
Read MoreWhat happens if a child refuses to visit their non-custodial parent?
Visitation arrangements ensure that parents who do not have custody may still play an important role in the lives of their children. Visitation rights are court-ordered, usually upon divorce or through other legal means if the couple was not married, and they should remain in place until the child is...
Read MoreWhen to seek divorce counseling
Not all divorces are the same. Some can be graciously mutual, with both parties agreeing that separation is the best way forward for each individual and their families. Some divorces are unfortunately bitter affairs, full of conflict and spite. For both these extremes, and everything in between, separating couples may...
Read MoreThe divorce rate is dropping in Pennsylvania
The once-every-10-years Census is scheduled for 2020, but the U.S. Census Bureau does not just sit around the rest of the time. It frequently conducts smaller-scale surveys to learn more about Americans, their changing demographics, and lives. One statistic from a recent Census survey caught our eye: the U.S. divorce...
Read MoreDo you know your relationship conflict style?
You fought for your marriage, but there was something that just couldn’t be reconciled. Conflicts seemed to go nowhere, and while one of you withdrew or shut down, the other seemed to cling harder. The constant push and pull probably felt exhausting, and while divorce is painful, there may be...
Read MoreThe process of moving children of divorce to other states
Custodial parents in Pennsylvania may be able to relocate their children to another state. However, it requires either the agreement of the other parent or a determination by the court that it is in the best interests of your children. In most cases, if the other parent does not agree...
Read MoreAvoiding professional problems while a divorce is in progress
Pennsylvanian spouses who are going through a divorce will have many concerns. The stress of the case can impact just about every aspect of a person’s life. That includes work. During a divorce, avoiding work problems can be a challenging proposition. To get through a separation without it causing major...
Read More7 tips for traveling with your child after divorce
Adjusting to life after divorce can be stressful and challenging, and it may not be very fun for adults or children. To raise your spirits and give yourself a break, you may decide to take a trip with your kids over Spring Break or summer vacation.If you plan to do...
Read MoreBreaking the news of a divorce to adult children
There are a lot of informative articles on the web that offer suggestions about how to break the news of your divorce to your kids. But many of these articles imagine this conversation happening with young children. What happens when you are going through a divorce later in your life...
Read MoreMistakes to avoid when divorcing after 50
Divorcing after the age of 50 has become common, and sometimes, people make mistakes during the process that they later regret. If you divorce after 50, here are some mistakes to avoid. Thinking the divorce will not affect your children At 50, the chances are that you have adult children...
Read MoreCommon signs that a marriage is ending
Even when one or both partners are unhappy in a marriage, deciding to divorce can be challenging. Have you done enough to try to rejuvenate your partnership and stay together? Will things eventually get better? If you are unsure about the right choice, consider these common factors that frequently contribute...
Read MoreAddressing business ownership in divorce
One of the most challenging elements of divorce is untangling a couple’s assets to arrive at a fair and equitable solution. This is more complicated when one or more businesses are involved. While all judges are different, they generally do not like to divide a company in a divorce because...
Read MoreProtecting children from conflict after divorce
For parents in Pennsylvania who get a divorce, conflict does not always end when the marriage does. Co-parenting conflicts can continue for years, either because the parents genuinely disagree about how to parent or because one parent tries to use the children to manipulate and upset the other parent. Despite...
Read MoreCoping strategies for high-conflict divorce
Divorce is one of the most difficult emotional challenges that many will ever face. However, it becomes more so in high-conflict situations where negative behavior probably also contributed to the demise of the marriage. Often it is one of the spouses, leaving the other looking to get out. Regardless of...
Read MoreWhy men pull away, and how they can come back
Ask a parent how they are doing, and the response will likely include an update on the children and how there just aren’t enough minutes in the day to get everything done. This is common in healthy marriages, but it can be a symptom of problems, particularly if the couple...
Read MoreSelf-care helps moms recover from divorce
The care and well-being of the children should be the priority in any divorce. Even under the best of circumstances, however, parents face a process that takes months and involves countless decisions with far-ranging impact. There is also the stress of not knowing what comes next. Parents typically throw themselves...
Read MoreDealing with a borderline personality disorder is still not easy after divorce
Marriage to a spouse with a borderline personality disorder (BPD) was an impossibly tall order. They exhibited broad shifts in emotions that were punctuated by aggressive behavior. Yet, they were able to hold a job and even function well enough that a judge allowed them joint custody with decision making...
Read MoreParallel parenting may be the right option
Some divorced parents have strong working relationships where the children move between households every few days, and parents work together on most parental responsibilities. However, not all divorces work seamlessly. There may be residual anger over the marriage’s demise and divorce settlement, or it can be a situation of outright...
Read MoreFinancial infidelity can cause problems in marriage and divorce
No matter how you manage your money during your marriage, committing financial infidelity could create some problems. Financial infidelity refers to the act of keeping money from your partner. And according to a recent survey, 57 percent of millennials, 37 percent of Gen Xers and 28 percent of baby boomers...
Read MoreManaging your social media accounts during a divorce
Divorce in the digital era means that anything you put on the internet can be used against you. Considering how much time we spend online and using media platforms, it should come as no surprise. It’s common practice for divorce lawyers to scour social media accounts for information or photos...
Read MoreDivorcing after 50? You’re not alone.
When someone gets a divorce at a later stage in life, there is often a question they might ask themselves: is there something wrong with me? There is nothing wrong with you, and you are not alone. In fact, while divorce rates for younger generations have decreased or stayed the...
Read MoreHelpful tips for staying healthy during your divorce
Everyone understands the importance of staying physically and mentally healthy – and that it’s often easier said than done. But prioritizing your health is critical when you’re undergoing a stressful, life-changing event like a divorce. When you’re going through a divorce, you’re most likely concentrating on the big things that...
Read MoreComplex compensation can make property division messy
Divorce even between two salaried, nine-to-five employees can be hard to agree on and delicate to calculate. When one or both have complicated compensation packages and intimate entanglements with a business’s assets, breaking up can truly be hard to do. Sometimes it is wise and possible to time divorces and...
Read MoreNavigating life after divorce with your adult children
Determining the best ways to parent after a divorce can be tricky. This is true no matter when you separate – even if it’s later in life. Regardless of your children’s ages, you and your partner’s split may strongly affect them. You should proceed with caution as you process your...
Read MoreHow to keep peace with your co-parent
After a strenuous divorce, it can seem impossible to keep peace with your co-parent. You know a peaceful environment is the best thing to offer your child but, when emotions are so fresh, it can be hard to practice. Even though you and your ex-partner don’t work together romantically, you...
Read MoreAre happy husbands and unhappy wives really the norm?
The idea that marriages between men and women make the men happy and the women miserable is not true, despite being a well-known “fact.” At least that is the conclusion of a scholarly researcher specializing in happiness. According to her understanding of the best available research, everyone is happier having...
Read MoreWhat to consider about life insurance as part of your divorce
Even if you don’t have insurance now, it may be something you should consider getting ordered as part of your divorce, especially if you have children. If one spouse will be paying support, a life insurance policy could guarantee that the support continues even if that spouse were to die....
Read MoreHow do other romantic relationships affect divorce?
One of the most common reasons couples divorce is because they either have or want to have other romantic relationships. Under these circumstances, there may be no choice but to end their marriage. While non-marital relationships are one common reason behind the decision to divorce, they can also affect the...
Read MoreAdvice from a family lawyer: how to stay together
Any divorce lawyer can tell you how to end a marriage, but this lawyer advised on how to keep a marriage strong. James J. Sexton, a divorce lawyer with decades of experience and a divorcee himself, recently published a relationship advice book, “If You’re In My Office, It’s Already Too...
Read MoreThere are two types of spousal support in Pennsylvania
Alimony, properly called “spousal support” in Pennsylvania, is granted when one spouse is financially dependent on the other. If you’re getting a divorce in Pennsylvania, you should know that the financially dependent spouse may be entitled to alimony while the divorce is in process. This is called “alimony pendente lite”...
Read MoreThe 5 biggest strains on a marriage
In a marriage, there are stressors that appear with time. As life changes, you are challenged with different aspects of your life. This can lead to problematic ways of coping with your stressors. Relationships are hard work and require more energy as challenges arise. Strains on a marriage are reoccurring...
Read MorePreparing for your first couples counseling session
You and your spouse had a great marriage at the start, but issues arose over the years. Finances, parenting styles or other differences caused fights, and the fights have taken their toll. So, you’ve decided to seek help through couples counseling. The thought of consulting with a stranger about your...
Read More4 digital mistakes that can affect your divorce
For many of us, rarely a day – or even an afternoon – goes by when we do not go online. Digital interactions play a significant role in most people’s lives, and these interactions can affect our offline lives. For instance, if you are getting a divorce, you should understand...
Read MoreYour divorce judgment is final. There are still a few steps left.
If you’ve recently completed the divorce process, you may be surprised to learn that there are still a few steps to take before everything is as it should be. Now that you have a final judgment or divorce decree, you will need to put the changes you worked so hard...
Read MoreA financial cheating study may help marriages and marketers
Nobody has done detailed scientific research on “financial infidelity,” until now. The authors of a major new study even needed to clearly define the problem for the first time. The scholars say many kinds of people might find uses for their work. Some may suffer from financial cheating, while others...
Read MoreGenetic testing and how it can affect families
Family secrets have been linked to divorce and marital strain since long before we had direct-to-consumer genetic testing like 23andMe. However, the popularity of these kits has made it easier than ever for people to discover untold stories and mistaken (or hidden) identities. As such, there are families across Pennsylvania...
Read MoreIs January the most popular month for divorces?
It stands to reason that January would be an unusually popular time for people to break up. After all, many people who have been considering asking for a divorce will have known for some time that they want one. But few people want to break up just before or during...
Read MoreEffective co-parenting after a divorce
After a divorce, determining how to have a healthy co-parenting system for the child’s benefit may be a significant concern. Fortunately, there are ways to increase the chances of a smooth transition that is beneficial for the child. Discourse and resentment are often present after a divorce when arranging co-parenting...
Read MoreConflict resolution tactics for co-parents
From maintaining a visitation schedule and when necessary, adjusting them, too communicating with your ex and keeping your own life on track while also managing your child’s; co-parenting can be as much of a struggle as a reward. Looking at the situation from a positive perspective can make a world...
Read More5 Strategies to help your children through divorce
Even though the writing is often on the wall, when a marriage has run its course, it often comes as a surprise to at least one spouse. Who is even more surprised than the taken aback spouse? The children. No matter their age, divorce is a shock. If the child...
Read MoreWomen often face a more difficult financial situation after divorce
The core philosophy of property division during divorce is fairness. A couple’s marital assets are supposed to be divided in an equitable manner – not necessarily split 50/50, but in a way that is fair-minded based on each individual and their situation. What these rulings often don’t account for, however,...
Read MoreThe truth about gray divorce
What’s the number one truth of gray divorce? The numbers are rising and have been for some time. Gray divorce is the term referencing divorcing couples aged 50 or older. Individuals in this age group are also a part of the baby boomer generation. The divorce rate for these individuals...
Read MoreHow does divorce impact children?
Most divorcing parents are worried about how their children will react to divorce. The manner in which parents approach divorce may make a difference on how it affects their children. Studies have shown that divorce can be difficult for children to comprehend. On the other hand, when parents effectively approach...
Read MoreHow does gray divorce impact retirement?
When a couple divorces, almost all aspects of their life are affected. Their family dynamic changes, their assets are subject to division, and most often, their finances take a hit. Of course, the implications can be even worse for couples who divorce later in life. The possibility of divorce can...
Read MoreHow can divorce affect women more than men?
As you prepare for your divorce, you may stay focused on your immediate needs. However, as the ruling finalizes and the dust settles, you will start figuring out how to live without your former spouse. But how will single life affect you? Divorce has a significant financial impact on both...
Read More3 ways technology can help with co-parenting
Once your divorce is over, you and your former spouse must start navigating the best way to co-parent. You will both adjust to a new schedule of switching time with your children. But if any issues go against the schedule, you may run into conflicts that lead to tension. Regardless...
Read More5 Complaints Of People Considering Divorce
When your marriage is in trouble, it may be tempting to overlook or deny the signs. However, ignoring your problems will not make them go away. It is healthier to address them with your spouse. Sometimes this means getting involved in counseling to try to work out your differences and...
Read MoreWhat are the reasons for an emotional divorce?
Rather than a marriage dissolving because of arguments about money or a spouse stepping out of the relationship, some couples in Pennsylvania go through an emotional divorce. Those who experience this type of split may wonder what happened to their relationship when they were not looking. SAS for Women describes...
Read MoreAddressing common co-parent conflicts
Co-parenting can be tough, especially after a contentious divorce. Keep in mind, though, that putting in the work to get along with your child’s other parent can pay dividends when it comes to raising a happy, healthy kid. Try these tips to get past the most common issues that arise...
Read MoreWho pays for a teen’s car insurance after a divorce?
When it comes to children and divorce in Pennsylvania, they are often the most challenging aspect of your divorce agreement. As parents, you need to make sure that you plan ahead for all your children’s needs. Whether they are little or teenagers, you want to be sure that you understand...
Read MoreWho gets the home in a divorce?
After child custody, property division is usually the biggest concern for divorcing couples. Who should leave the house during the separation period and who ultimately retains ownership of the family home? When determining where to live after a divorce, consider these factors to reach an agreement on dividing real estate...
Read MoreHow fault impacts divorce
When you are thinking about ending your marriage, you may have concerns about how fault will factor into the divorce process. For example, are property division, spousal support and child custody impacted by infidelity? In Pennsylvania, an individual can file for either a fault or no-fault divorce. You can file...
Read MoreFinancial Security Should Take Priority In Gray Divorce
As life expectancies increase, divorce is becoming a more appealing option for people over 50 years old who realize they are no longer happy in their marriages. Although gray divorce, a term for divorce involving spouses over 50 years old, is becoming more common, it can involve devastating financial consequences....
Read MoreWhat Happens To Retirement Funds In Divorce?
Divorce can turn anyone’s life upside down. But for those nearing retirement, an additional concern rears its head: What will happen to the retirement funds I worked so hard to build? The consistent increase in the divorce rate for couples over 50 over the last few decades means many people...
Read MoreCould you change your child custody arrangement?
After establishing your child custody order, you might feel as though it is etched in stone until your youngest child turns 18. Though not all issues warrant a change to your order, certain circumstances might leave you wanting to make some changes. If your current visitation schedule is working for...
Read MoreLove yourself, even if you no longer love your spouse
When you decide to file for divorce, you probably have numerous fears and regrets, not to mention anger. With escalated emotional distress often comes the opportunity to lose your composure in the moment, resulting in words you wish you could take back. Although there are plenty of things you may...
Read MoreWhy hearing “no” is important during mediation
If you are like most people, having someone tell you “no” can be frustrating. It may feel like a denial of your wishes or a quick way to shut down a conversation. However, saying “no” is extremely important. And hearing your spouse say it may be even more so. Contrary...
Read MoreIs adoption the right choice for you?
At some point in their lives, many people consider adopting a child. Whether they are inspired by someone else’s adoption story or wish to adopt a stepchild, this decision should be accompanied by seeking answers to your burning questions. Is this the right time in my life? How much will...
Read MoreCryptocurrency can affect divorce court
Most people who have gone through a divorce will likely tell you it is a painful process. It is difficult to accept that your relationship has changed so drastically. And it might be hard to wrap your mind around how this happened to you. Matters of child custody arrangements and...
Read MoreOrganizing For Your Divorce
Divorce can be a grueling process and may require a significant amount of background work in order to be prepared. The sooner one starts doing that work, the better positioned they may be to move efficiently through the process. Some of that work can begin even before speaking with an...
Read MoreTips for discussing a prenup with your partner
Prenuptial agreements are becoming more and more common, especially among younger couples. Though they once held a stigma and seemed unnecessary for people who were not ultra-wealthy, prenups can be a valuable resource for all types of couples today. That said, if you are among those considering a prenuptial agreement,...
Read MoreWhat a parenting coordinator can do for you and your co-parent
If you find it difficult to communicate with your co-parent, a parenting coordinator can be a useful person to help effectively manage your children’s everyday concerns. In the face of a divorce, everyday parenting decisions can seem like an inefficient (and expensive) use of your time. Parenting coordinators are here...
Read MoreHow the reason for your divorce can affect your actual divorce
When two people divorce, there are likely numerous reasons each person could state for the demise of the relationships. Often, though, there is one primary event or behavior that ultimately pushes the relationship beyond repair. That reason can have a dramatic impact on the trajectory of the divorce process in...
Read MorePreparing to adopt? What to expect from the home study
If you are hoping to welcome a child or infant into your home through adoption, you should know that there are numerous steps to the process. For instance, most prospective adoptive parents in Pennsylvania will undergo a home study prior to adoption. The home study is the process through which...
Read MoreParenting coordination for custody offers an alternative to court
Divorced parents struggling to agree on or implement a parenting plan will soon have another tool at their disposal: parenting coordination. This process allows adversarial parents to work with a skilled coordinator who will help them try to overcome conflicts and make decisions about their custody issues. This form of...
Read MoreDoes everything have to change after divorce?
Divorce is undoubtedly a significant life event. As such, it typically results in a lot of change. People move, they have different financial resources and their lifestyle can change considerably. Some change can be a good thing, especially when it is a change from an unhappy or unfulfilling marriage. However,...
Read MoreParental alienation: What it is, what parents can do about it
A parent’s greatest fear in the wake of a divorce can be losing time and a quality relationship with their children. And unfortunately, divorce can adversely impact a parent-child relationship, especially if one parent engages in parental alienation. Parental alienation involves behaviors by one parent to create or foster an...
Read More4 things to avoid when going through a divorce
Divorce puts people in very difficult positions. Parties who once hoped to spend their lives together must not separate their assets, their time with their children and their lives. Therefore, people may do or say things they later regret. While every case is different, know that there are some general...
Read MoreCan courts later modify divorce agreements?
One option divorcing couples here in Pennsylvania have for addressing the many important issues in their divorce is to reach agreements on such issues. What if, after a divorce, a person feels that changing circumstances have made it so an agreement that he or she made with his or her...
Read MoreShould you keep the house after a divorce?
Buying a house is big step, and it can take a long time to make that house feel like a home. Now that you are facing a divorce, you may feel tempted to hang onto the place you worked so hard to make yours. Though keeping the marital home may...
Read MoreHow do alimony payments affect taxes?
An individual’s financial future after divorce can seem uncertain. If the final agreement includes spousal support, whether you pay or receive it, that question is likely on the forefront of your mind. Divorces in which alimony may be required that are finalized starting January 1, 2019 could be more complicated....
Read MoreWhat happens with gifts in a divorce?
During the holidays and at other times of the year, people can receive gifts that have considerable value, both emotionally and financially. When a person gets divorced, among the concerns he or she may have are worries about what will happen with cherished gifts he or she received in the...
Read MoreTips for celebrating the holidays with your kids after divorce
Many people are eager to get to a new year and put 2018 behind them. This could certainly be the case if this was the year you got divorced. However, first comes the holidays. And this season can be particularly difficult to navigate for the first time after divorce, especially...
Read MoreParents: Benefits of avoiding the courtroom during divorce
When parents divorce, one of their main concerns is typically how they can navigate this difficult event without causing unnecessary trauma for their children. However, parties also want a divorce that protects their own interests. Striking this balance can be complicated, but it may not be as difficult as you...
Read MoreHow could divorce affect your small business?
For small business owners, divorce can create a lot of anxiety. Owners or operators of start-ups, family businesses or even family farms can suddenly find themselves in complex, technical discussions on how to properly “divide” their business. Like many who go through a divorce, you may be unprepared for what...
Read More4 missteps that can cost you more than money during your divorce
When people divorce, they often focus on the financial aspect of the process. Yes, it costs money to end a marriage, and you will divide your marital assets. You may also, however, be confronted with decisions that affect more than your financial interest. If you are going through divorce, understand...
Read MoreCan you get a Protection From Abuse order for verbal abuse?
Abuse can come in many different forms. According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (NDVH), almost 20 people are physically abused in the United States each minute. Sadly, many of these cases of domestic violence begin with verbal abuse, which can have a lasting impact on a victim. In Pennsylvania,...
Read MoreWhat is a collaborative divorce?
People often expect that a divorce will be a long, bitter process. And for some people, it can be if they are hostile or dealing with especially complex issues. Often, these types of cases wind up in a courtroom. However, a divorce does not have to be this way. There...
Read MoreWhat to know about Income and Expense Statements
While divorce is largely an emotional and personal event, it is also a legal process. As such, it typically requires participants to fill out and submit a lot of paperwork. One such document divorcing spouses will need to complete is a financial accounting of each person’s income and expenses. This...
Read MoreCan your child ask their stepparent to adopt them?
It is possible that while scrolling through social media, you have found videos of stepchildren asking their stepparents to adopt them. If you haven’t, a quick search on YouTube for “surprise stepparent adoption” will produce a few tears. These heartwarming videos typically end with a stepparent opening a present with...
Read MoreStart planning now for co-parenting during the holidays
November means the start of the holidays is just a few short weeks away. Whether you and your family celebrate Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas, New Year’s or more, the holidays are a time of sentiment and tradition, typically spent with your loved ones. For families with divorced or separated parents, the...
Read MoreResources coming for PA grandparents who adopt grandchildren
Adopting a child is a joyous occasion for the adoptive parents and the adopted child. Often, the child is becoming part of a family unit after growing up without appropriate parental care. In other instances, a child’s previously stable home may have been abruptly disrupted by a parent’s criminal charges...
Read MoreChallenges can arise when modifying spousal support
If you pay or receive spousal support, you should know that it is possible to modify these orders as time goes by. After all, people can change, as can their needs and means. When a significant change occurs, it could warrant re-examination of support orders and possible modification. That said,...
Read MoreTips for protecting your privacy during divorce
Throughout the course of any divorce, parties share a vast amount of information, from their financial records to intimate details of their marriage. Many people would prefer that others not be privy to this information, and rules that took effect earlier this year in Pennsylvania regarding confidential documents and information...
Read MoreAre all mediation approaches the same?
Mediation is becoming an increasingly common way to resolve family law matters, from property division to child custody. This approach allows parties to reach mutually agreeable resolutions together and avoid the demands of litigation. However, there is more to the mediation process than people might realize. For instance, not all...
Read MoreWhat to consider when discussing child custody
Child custody orders are critical tools for parents who are not in an intact family, and securing a fair order should be a top priority when parents separate. While people might expect the courts to design these orders, oftentimes, it is the parents who do so through mediation or collaboration....
Read MoreWhat is the financial impact of gray divorce?
Trends show an increase in the number of divorces for couples 50-plus years of age. Known as gray divorce, these individuals face some unique challenges that younger divorcing spouses may not. One of the greatest challenges is the economic impact that gray divorce can have on a family. Learn why...
Read MoreWhich method of divorce is right for you?
Legally marrying can look very different for every couple. Some people choose to marry in a church in front of a pastor; some choose to have an ordained friend perform an outdoor ceremony; some choose to go down to the courthouse and get married by a judge. And just as...
Read MoreThe very real consequences of concealing assets during divorce
Any time two people divorce, there is the potential for one or both parties to make mistakes that make the process more difficult and contentious. Not only can certain missteps hinder negotiations in mediation and cause added stress on both people, they can also lead to far more severe consequences,...
Read MoreWhat are some examples of custody violations?
Parents with a custody or visitation agreement must comply with these orders. They are put in place by courts and are supposed to keep children safe. Unfortunately, there are times when a parent violates a custody order, intentionally or accidentally. In such situations, it can be crucial for the non-violating...
Read MoreWhat happens in divorce mediation?
If you are getting divorced, chances are it is the first time you have been through this process. You can understandably be nervous, scared and confused about what will happen and what you can expect. First, is it important to remember that you are not alone and you don’t have...
Read MoreHow will property be divided during your divorce?
When going through a divorce, you may have many concerns weighing on you. You are likely dealing with feelings of sadness or anger, or both. You may feel betrayed by your soon-to-be ex, or you may feel a sense of relief to be leaving a bad marriage. Even if you...
Read MoreCan we learn anything from celebrity divorces?
When people read about celebrity divorces in the news or tabloids, it can be easy to dismiss them as little more than salacious gossip. After all, frequently, these stories are based on speculation and unnamed sources who may have no real connection to the situation. That said, there may be...
Read MoreNegotiation tips if you are mediating your divorce
If you plan to utilize a mediator for your divorce, you should educate yourself about the process. While your attorney will be available outside of the mediation to give you advice and information, you will ultimately be the one making decisions in the room with your spouse and chosen mediator....
Read MoreIs it always wise to try and keep the marital home in a divorce?
Owning a home is part of the American dream. People often imagine getting married, buying a house and raising a family in it. It is also usually the single most expensive asset families own. Thus, it is no surprise that when spouses separate, the home is usually at the center...
Read MoreParents: Why it’s important to have formal court orders in place
When parents separate or divorce, the relationship may not end overnight. There can be a transition period where spouses attempt to reconcile or live separately in the same home. This may be ideal for two parents who want to spend as much time as possible with their children, but what...
Read MoreHow to know if you are being emotionally abused
Fighting is an inevitable part of most marriages and long-term relationships. Most couples simply do not agree about everything. However, there is a difference between getting into a squabble with your partner and facing emotional abuse at the hands of the one you love. Unfortunately, emotional abuse tactics can be...
Read MoreBack-to-school tips for co-parents
In a matter of weeks, kids across Pennsylvania will be back in school. If you are a parent, this can mean soaking in the last weeks of summer vacation with your kids and doing some back-to-school shopping. If you are a co-parent, however, you should also think about getting your...
Read MoreHow your age can determine alimony payments
Divorce can be a stressful process at any age it occurs. If you were not the primary earner in your marriage, it can place a large hindrance on your immediate and far future financial goals. However, age is an important factor that Pennsylvania courts consider when deciding the amount of...
Read MorePrenuptial agreements: A trend worth considering?
People in their 20s and 30s are unlike older generations in many ways, from their style and personal habits to their financial challenges and familiarity with technology. These differences extend to their relationships, as well. For instance, according to recent surveys, millennials are more likely to have prenuptial agreements than...
Read MoreWhat’s the difference between a closed and open adoption?
If you want to adopt a child, you have a lot of important decisions to make. One such important decision is whether you prefer an open or closed adoption. In this post, we will explain the differences between the types of adoptions and what you should consider before making any...
Read MoreHow can cryptocurrency complicate a divorce?
When it comes to divorce, owning cryptocurrency can complicate a situation that may already be delicate. Splitting typical assets such as other funds and properties may already be a challenge. Now, there is an intangible and very valuable asset that can create additional disputes. Bitcoin and similar cryptocurrencies are a...
Read MoreCo-parents: Your child might be ready for college. Are you?
Co-parenting or sharing custody of your child with another parent is undoubtedly a challenge. Just when you seem to get into a stable routine, something changes and shakes everything up. For instance, if your child is getting ready for college — or even just starting to think about it —...
Read More4 people who can help you through divorce
Divorce can be an isolating, emotional experience for many people, whether the split is amicable or contentious. You might be feeling scared, misunderstood and confused about your current situation and future, and you may not know what to do. Of course, friends and family members can provide immeasurable support during...
Read MoreCan you date during your divorce proceedings?
While it may seem premature or taboo, there is no law that prevents separated spouses from being in relationships with other people during their divorce proceedings. Your soon to be former spouse cannot prevent you from dating or even demand that you receive less property in your divorce simply because...
Read MoreWhat to know about termination of parental rights before adoption
Adopting a child can be a wonderful, life-enriching experience for any prospective parent. Whether you want to adopt a baby from across the world or the teenage son or daughter of your partner, becoming a legal parent to a child is an event worth celebrating. However, there are challenges along...
Read MoreHow long does it take to divorce in Pennsylvania?
The question posed in the title of this post is one of the most common questions people have when they or their spouse decide to file for divorce. Unfortunately, there is no set amount of time that it takes to divorce. However, there are certain statutes and factors that can...
Read More4 long-term benefits of alternative dispute resolution methods
It can be very difficult for people to think about life after divorce. Some people are devastated about the end of their marriage, others are so focused on the details of the divorce itself that it is all but impossible to think of much else. However, there is life after...
Read MoreHow to decide whether to file for a fault-based divorce
When you are going through a divorce, it is easy to blame the problems of your marriage on your soon-to-be-ex spouse. You may be justified in placing blame, if he or she cheated or treated you badly. In Pennsylvania, you can file for no-fault or a fault-based divorce. However, even...
Read MoreImportant tips for summer traveling when you share custody
Summer vacation is typically synonymous with relaxing, slowing down and enjoying more time as a family. However, as relaxing as we might want summer to be, it often takes some work to make it so — especially if you are a parent who shares custody of your children. For instance,...
Read MoreDon’t forget long-term financial goals during divorce
Divorce can change a lot about a person’s life, especially during the immediate transition out of the marriage. People typically move, shift to a co-parenting or visitation arrangement, and reassess their living expenses. On a broader level, divorce can also affect a spouse’s financial security and goals. For this reason,...
Read MoreCan an app make splitting the kids’ extracurricular costs easier?
It seemed like everything was finalized. You and your ex (and your attorneys) made child custody arrangements and determined child support payments. Now, there are things that you never talked about, including extra expenses for your children. Who is going to pay for soccer? What about paying for hobbies that...
Read MoreWho gets the pet in a Pennsylvania divorce?
People expect child custody cases to be complicated and contentious; they may not anticipate a similar experience when divorcing spouses are fighting over a pet. However, increasingly, animal companions are at the center of heated legal battles. If you have a pet and are getting divorced, then you may want...
Read MoreGrandparents: What to know if you want to adopt a grandchild
When people think about adopting a child, they often think about a young parent or couple looking to start or expand their family. However, there are millions of grandparents taking on the role of parent today. Often, grandparents seek to adopt grandchildren not out of a desire to become parents...
Read MoreWhat does custodial interference look like?
Sharing custody of your child with his or her other parent is not an easy situation, particularly if you do not like or trust that person. You might spend much of your time worrying if your child is happy and safe, and you can become understandably upset if your ex...
Read MoreNavigating Pennsylvania’s child custody relocation rules
Whether out of necessity to take a new job or simply based on a desire to move, there may come a time when a custodial parent wants to relocate with the child. However, Pennsylvania law prevents a parent from moving without the court’s authorization if the move will impact the...
Read More5 ways you could be sabotaging a peaceful divorce
There is no question that divorce is one of the most difficult events a person can go through. It can be physically, emotionally and financially draining, particularly when it drags on and becomes contentious. This is why it can be so important to opt for more peaceful means of divorcing,...
Read MoreBird nesting: A custody trend worth examining?
Child custody is not a new issue facing Pennsylvania parents. For decades now, it has been increasingly common for parents to split time with their children after divorce or separation. However, some custody arrangements today might look very different than they did a generation ago. Instead of the traditional plan...
Read More4 ways ADR can make divorce a little easier
One of the last things divorcing spouses may want to do once they have filed for divorce is to sit in a room and make very difficult decisions together. However, as upsetting as this might seem, working together in a neutral or collaborative setting could make this process a little...
Read MoreWhat factors can affect alimony awards in Pennsylvania?
Adjusting to life after marriage and divorce is a challenge. The emotional and social adjustment certainly is difficult, but so is the financial adjustment. This can be especially true if your ex (or soon-to-be ex) was the primary earner in your household. If you are in this situation, then you...
Read MoreImportant financial tips for later-in-life divorce
In recent years, many people over the age of 50 have filed for divorce. As the curve leans toward older Americans divorcing more often than younger Americans, it’s important to think about the ramifications of divorce on finances at different stages of life. One reason many prefer later-in-life divorce is...
Read MoreWhy spring is the time to think about summer custody plans
You might still be recovering from spring break, but summer is right around the corner. If you are a parent sharing custody of your child in Pennsylvania, then it can be wise to start thinking about any plans you or the other parent of your child have for the summer...
Read MoreHow divorce-related payments can affect your taxes
The deadline for filing tax returns is just around the corner. As stressful as this time of year can be in any year, it can be particularly stressful if you are recently divorced or separated. Divorce will likely affect several aspects of your taxes, from your filing status to various...
Read MoreDon’t believe these 3 mediation myths
When moving towards divorce, spouses are likely doing so with little knowledge about their options. Often, the information that they do have comes from internet searches, TV shows, and other third parties. Unfortunately, much of the information garnered from these sources is not accurate. In fact, there are a number...
Read MoreOn The Rise: Custody Disputes Over High School Football
A Pennsylvania man has gone to court to prevent his 17-year-old son from playing football. According to the New York Times, the case is part of a national trend. As public knowledge regarding the long-term effects of football injuries – and brain injuries in particular – has evolved, there has...
Read MoreDecisions you may not anticipate when developing a parenting plan
When most people think about child custody issues, they envision their ideal physical custody schedule. However, legal custody is also vital to consider.Most parents share legal custody of their children, though they might not recognize what this means until a child gets older or unless certain issues arise. In this...
Read MoreHow does property division work in Pennsylvania?
One of the most frightening and contentious steps in a divorce is dividing assets. When there is money, debt and property at stake, it is very common for divorcing spouses to get defensive and possibly angry. As such, disputes can and do arise. To avoid or at least minimize the...
Read More4 realities of litigating a divorce that you should understand
If you are considering divorce or have already decided to divorce, then you may be scared, angry and anxious. These emotions are undoubtedly painful and they can make you feel defensive and ready to fight your way to a resolution. People who are feeling this way as they head into...
Read MoreA divorce closer to retirement age requires careful preparation
Some estimate that as many as half of all marriages will end in divorce, which suggests that divorce is not limited to any particular age group, or other demographic. In any circumstance, separating spouses should consider the impact that divorce will have on their financial, emotion and physical well-being. These...
Read MoreSiblings who wanted to stay together may be closer to adoption
In Pennsylvania alone, there are countless children longing for a family and home of their own. For many of them, adoption may feel like a lifetime away. For one set of siblings in Kansas, however, the wait may finally be coming to an end. Almost 11 months ago, one state...
Read MoreCustody Orders: modification and enforceability
The ending of a marriage in a divorce is a difficult and emotionally complex time for all of the parties involved. The determination of child custody can likewise be just as troubling, especially for children and a parent who is not awarded primary physical custody. However, there are avenues a...
Read MoreUnderstanding open adoption
Until the last few decades the profile of adoptive parents changed very little. The typical adoptive family was a married couple who sought to adopt an infant. Now children of all ages are adopted by parents at various stages in life. As adoption profiles have changed, so have the nature...
Read MoreAdoption Credit program spared from the tax law ax
The tax cut bill passed in December makes positive changes to the way the Adoption Credit works. We are not tax lawyers, but we can describe, from a family law standpoint, how the program helps adoptive parents. An Adoption Credit program has existed for years. Its purpose has been to...
Read MoreDivorce using alternative dispute resolution
Though many people believe that divorce is synonymous with a long and protracted court battle, Pennsylvania families are able to settle their differences by using alternative dispute resolution. Alternative dispute resolution, which can sometimes be less taxing emotionally and financially, encompasses mediation, Collaborative Law, and cooperative practice. Some family law...
Read MoreMother records heartfelt message before son’s adoption
An unplanned pregnancy can bring about mixed emotions for a variety of reasons. Some parents-to-be are concerned about their lack of financial resources and personal support network. Others are concerned about being able to care for the new child and the children they already have. Sometimes, these circumstances cause parents...
Read MoreMore states considering the benefits of shared child custody
Several decades ago, it was typical for a family court judge to rule that the mother is the default parent and that fathers would be awarded the right to visit their child on a set schedule. That approach has been revised over the past few years as more courts are...
Read MoreDigital stalking becoming problem, especially during divorce
Years ago, if a suspicious spouse wanted to keep tabs on a partner, he or she might resort to hiring a private detective to gather evidence of infidelity or other breaches of trust. While this may have been unsettling for the target of the spying, it may pale in comparison...
Read MoreYour choice of divorce mediator could affect your negotiations
Perhaps you and your soon-to-be former spouse made the conscious decision to stay out of court. You want to use mediation to resolve your issues and reach a fair and equitable settlement. You both agree that this provides you with the best option for ending your marriage as amicably as...
Read MoreLawmaker touts benefits of collaborative law bill
The divorce process can be long, costly and emotionally draining. However, not every divorce must end up in a courtroom, as there are several alternative dispute resolution options available to separating spouses and parents. One Pennsylvania lawmaker recently extolled the benefits behind her new bill, which would help codify one...
Read MoreManaging special days when getting a divorce
After one family home splits into two, parents and children are tasked with celebrating special occasions and holidays in the context of a new family dynamic. Parents and children alike may be experiencing stress about the upcoming holiday schedule and both parents may worry about how to meaningfully celebrate a...
Read MoreRefinancing a home may be prudent after a divorce
When a couple decides that a marriage is no longer sustainable, they should consider and plan for the impact of a divorce on different parts of their life, including their financial stability. Where a couple purchased a home during their marriage, Pennsylvania residents should consider all options available to them....
Read MoreStepparent adoption is challenging and rewarding
Becoming a stepparent can be both challenging and rewarding. Sometimes, you are learning to co-parent with two other active parents. Other times, you are filling a void left by an absent or inconsistent parent. In those instances where you are performing duties a biological parent has failed to, you may...
Read MoreBoth reasons and trends for adoption have changed over time
Nationally, there are an estimated 100,000 children in the foster care system. National Adoption Day was recently celebrated as a way to draw attention to these children’s needs. According to historical notes, children were previously viewed as a contributing member of the household once they were old enough to work...
Read MoreTax code revisions could add to burden of divorce for many
Asserting that the tax code needs updating, Congress is currently working on revisions to tax laws that will likely have an impact on every Pennsylvania resident in one way or another. One component that may make the divorce process more complicated would directly impact the spouse who is ordered to...
Read MoreNFL player, Jimmy Smith, in midst of child custody dispute
Relationships among high profile athletes often come under intense scrutiny from fans, especially when those relationships do not end happily. These sports professionals often find themselves caught up in acrimonious child custody disputes filled with allegations that may or may not be true. Football fans living in Pennsylvania may be...
Read MoreNo fault doesn’t mean no reason when it comes to divorce
You’ve probably heard of (or perhaps even known someone who has experienced) long, drawn out courtroom battles marked by emotional outbursts, contentious debates and mudslinging between spouses as they fight their way through divorce proceedings. In fact, this description of divorce is so common that you might have felt a...
Read MoreCreative custody may be the answer to your stability worries
When you decided to pursue divorce, you may have immediately begun worrying about your children’s future. Perhaps stories of high risk behavior in children of divorce increased your anxiety level. On the other hand, you may know a few people whose children have seemingly fared quite well since their parents...
Read MoreWoman accused of running an adoption scheme
Couples who are unable to have their own biological children may always dream of becoming a family. In these situations, many may consider adoption as a way of providing a child with a loving home. Pennsylvania residents have many options, however, not every opportunity is what it seems. Recently, one...
Read MoreSome jobs may increase likelihood of divorce
By its nature, a marriage requires tremendous amounts of time and energy in order for it to survive — let alone thrive. Needless to say, if one’s occupation also requires an equal amount of time and energy, then it may not be surprising when a divorce ensues. While there are...
Read MoreStudy points to shared child custody as better option for many
Traditionally, when parents divorced, family court judges usually ordered that mothers would be the primary care provider and fathers would be relegated to part-time parenting. However, in spite of the intention to spare children the conflict that may erupt between parents, a recent study points to shared child custody being...
Read MoreAn adoption is not the only reason to terminate parental rights
Many Pennsylvania families are headed by one if not two biological parents. However, families can take many forms for a variety of different reasons, including adoption. In order for many adoptions to take place, the existing parental rights of a biological parent may first need to be terminated. While adoption...
Read MoreLawmaker seeks to modify how child custody time is determined
Marriages can be a blessing when things are going well or a curse when they are not. Some couples may decide that divorce is a better option, especially if minor children are frequently subjected to a hostile marital environment. However, the parents will be faced with making a parenting plan...
Read MoreShared parenting bucks the trend of sole custody
It may seem obvious to say, but most divorces involve conflict. However, you may find comfort in hearing that the conflict, while intense in the throes of divorce, typically fades during the years immediately afterward. Unfortunately, the child custody rulings made in the heat of conflict may remain in place...
Read MoreConsidering which assets are worth their costs in a divorce
While it is true that the end of a marriage is emotionally taxing, it still may be worth the effort to pay close attention to the financial aspects. Not every asset is worth its weight when the monetary costs of the divorce are calculated. Pennsylvania has its own laws regarding...
Read MoreAlternative dispute resolution may be a viable option at times
In most divorce cases, when two parties are at odds in a legal matter, it may be expected that a trial is the best option for resolving the issue. However, in many cases, alternative dispute resolution methods work well. There are several different options, and Pennsylvania residents may benefit from...
Read MoreAdoption may not be out of the question
There seems to be a common misconception out there that it is too complex and expensive to consider bringing a child in need of a home into one’s family. However, while the adoption process can be lengthy and involved, it may not be out of the realm of possibility if...
Read MoreHow grandparents can protect their access to their grandchildren
If you are a grandparent and are being denied access to your grandchildren, you are probably frustrated and heartbroken. It is unfortunate, yet common, for adult children to deny such access to grandparents, especially during emotionally charged disputes. A parent could be upset with continued financial support or wants to...
Read MoreHow to blend families while preventing parenting plan problems
If you’re one of many Pennsylvania residents who divorced in recent years, you may deserve a pat on the back for overcoming the challenges you likely faced in the process. Especially, if you’re a parent, chances are you and your kids have had to make several adjustments in lifestyle that...
Read MoreFault or no-fault: That is the question.
Whether you and your spouse married less than a year ago, or your wedding day is now decades past, you’d likely agree with other Pennsylvania spouses who admit marriage can be quite challenging at times. If you and your spouse have children together, certain marital and/or family problems may seem...
Read MoreDo grandparents have rights in Pennsylvania?
When custody rights are a factor in a divorce, parents are often at the center. But because grandparents are so often involved in raising children, they may also be entitled to visitation and perhaps even custody, depending on the situation. In Pennsylvania, the court may indeed grant grandparents’ visitation requests...
Read MoreWhen adoption is the best option
Most of us know a family whose lives have been enriched through adoption or an adult who was adopted into a loving family. What many people don’t understand are the decisions that come into play when adoption is the best option. One of the first things a family may decide...
Read MoreNo Fault Divorce
In a move designed to ease the toll that the divorce process takes on families, the state of Pennsylvania has amended its waiting period from one to two years, beginning in December 2016. Many people mistakenly believe that no-fault divorces always involve both parties agreeing to end the marriage. In...
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