Filing for Divorce? Get A Handle on Your Finances First
When we think of filing for divorce, often the first thing that comes to mind is the emotional toll of ending a marriage. And divorce is certainly an emotional process. But divorce also has a financial impact on a divorcing couple, and it is best to get a clear picture...
Read MoreAt What Age is a Child’s Parental Preference Considered in Custody Cases?
Unlike some states, Pennsylvania law does not designate an age in which a child’s parental preferences will be taken into consideration in custody disputes. This means that a child’s parental preference may be considered by the judge presiding over your case at any age. Officially, children cannot decide which parent...
Read MoreIs Your Child Making the Grade?
Do you know what “grades” represent in school? Generally, an “A” is great, and a “D” or “F” is failing. What work or lack of work went into those simple letters? Some schools do not give letter grades. They may provide an “O” for outstanding and “S” for satisfactory. Perhaps,...
Read MoreMy child did not get the educational help they needed. Can I sue for damages?
It depends. According to the new decision by the Supreme Court of the United States, you can file for damages under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) (or other applicable federal law) if the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) does not provide a remedy for your claim. Miguel Luna...
Read MoreUs vs. Them
It’s the day of your IEP meeting. You’ve reviewed the draft IEP that was sent home (if you didn’t get one, we’ll discuss that in another blog). You can tell that your child is not making progress, but you have no idea how to help them. You go to the...
Read MoreThe “I” in IEP
Have you ever heard someone from the school say, “for kids like yours, we offer this”? Or have you ever heard “we don’t do that here”? The “I” in IEP stands for individualized. The definition of individualized is something tailored to one person. In this case, the education plan is...
Read MoreReasons to consider mediation for your divorce
Going through a divorce is a painful, exhausting process for anyone. Whatever the reason- it takes its toll on the parties divorcing. If they have children, things get more complicated, and the parties must balance many things simultaneously. In addition to the emotional toll that divorce takes on the family,...
Read MoreHow to talk to your children about your divorce
Are your kids the most important thing to you? If so, then you’re probably worried about how breaking the news of divorce will affect them. It’s a legitimate concern because children thrive in stable and secure and environments, and a divorce threatens the very foundation of those characteristics. Additionally, many...
Read MoreWhy a parent might show up late for a custody exchange
Pennsylvania law typically allows parents to have custody or visitation rights to their children after a divorce or breakup. However, it can be challenging to work with your child’s other parent after a romantic relationship comes to an end. For example, your ex may consistently show up late to a...
Read MoreAdvice for co-parenting with a difficult ex
When you share custody of a child after a divorce, you’ll have to maintain some sort of a relationship with your ex-spouse. Some people maintain the bare minimum required for coordinating visits, while others must engage in more involved interaction to co-manage medications, health, and social obligations. While many couples...
Read MoreHow to make divorce manageable
There is no reason to sugarcoat the truth; divorce is difficult for all involved. Though it’s never their fault, children may blame themselves for the split and will need reassurance that it had nothing to do with them. Children will also wonder where mom or dad went, and if they’ll...
Read MoreReducing the effect of divorce on your children
If you are sitting at home thinking about ending your marriage, then you’re probably concerned about a lot of things: breaking the news to your spouse, dividing marital assets, and facing the uncertainty of a new beginning. Yet, your primary worry might be focused on how divorce will affect your...
Read MoreDon’t let drug use and domestic violence damage your child
Your relationship with your children is precious. If you’re like most people, then you’d do just about anything to keep your children safe, which may not be the easiest thing to do when your children spends time with their other parent. If you have legitimate concerns about your children’s well-being...
Read MoreAge is a big factor in today’s divorce rates
Statistics show a decline in divorce over the past decade. Those numbers have a lot of factors at play behind them, but a fascinating piece of the puzzle is the age at which people are divorcing today. As millennials have aged, they’ve also bumped up the average age of a...
Read MoreHave the Four Horsemen found your marriage?
They’re better known as a biblical metaphor for the end of the world, but the fabled Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse have received a modern revival, courtesy of relationship expert John Gottman. Dr. Gottman’s approach to marriage analysis includes defining four communication styles, which he calls the Four Horsemen. Their...
Read MoreDo you know your relationship conflict style?
You fought for your marriage, but there was something that just couldn’t be reconciled. Conflicts seemed to go nowhere, and while one of you withdrew or shut down, the other seemed to cling harder. The constant push and pull probably felt exhausting, and while divorce is painful, there may be...
Read MoreBreaking the news of a divorce to adult children
There are a lot of informative articles on the web that offer suggestions about how to break the news of your divorce to your kids. But many of these articles imagine this conversation happening with young children. What happens when you are going through a divorce later in your life...
Read MoreDivorcing after 50? You’re not alone.
When someone gets a divorce at a later stage in life, there is often a question they might ask themselves: is there something wrong with me? There is nothing wrong with you, and you are not alone. In fact, while divorce rates for younger generations have decreased or stayed the...
Read MoreAdvice from a family lawyer: how to stay together
Any divorce lawyer can tell you how to end a marriage, but this lawyer advised on how to keep a marriage strong. James J. Sexton, a divorce lawyer with decades of experience and a divorcee himself, recently published a relationship advice book, “If You’re In My Office, It’s Already Too...
Read MoreEffective co-parenting after a divorce
After a divorce, determining how to have a healthy co-parenting system for the child’s benefit may be a significant concern. Fortunately, there are ways to increase the chances of a smooth transition that is beneficial for the child. Discourse and resentment are often present after a divorce when arranging co-parenting...
Read MoreWhat Happens To Retirement Funds In Divorce?
Divorce can turn anyone’s life upside down. But for those nearing retirement, an additional concern rears its head: What will happen to the retirement funds I worked so hard to build? The consistent increase in the divorce rate for couples over 50 over the last few decades means many people...
Read MoreCould you change your child custody arrangement?
After establishing your child custody order, you might feel as though it is etched in stone until your youngest child turns 18. Though not all issues warrant a change to your order, certain circumstances might leave you wanting to make some changes. If your current visitation schedule is working for...
Read MoreLove yourself, even if you no longer love your spouse
When you decide to file for divorce, you probably have numerous fears and regrets, not to mention anger. With escalated emotional distress often comes the opportunity to lose your composure in the moment, resulting in words you wish you could take back. Although there are plenty of things you may...
Read MoreWhy hearing “no” is important during mediation
If you are like most people, having someone tell you “no” can be frustrating. It may feel like a denial of your wishes or a quick way to shut down a conversation. However, saying “no” is extremely important. And hearing your spouse say it may be even more so. Contrary...
Read MoreIs adoption the right choice for you?
At some point in their lives, many people consider adopting a child. Whether they are inspired by someone else’s adoption story or wish to adopt a stepchild, this decision should be accompanied by seeking answers to your burning questions. Is this the right time in my life? How much will...
Read MoreCryptocurrency can affect divorce court
Most people who have gone through a divorce will likely tell you it is a painful process. It is difficult to accept that your relationship has changed so drastically. And it might be hard to wrap your mind around how this happened to you. Matters of child custody arrangements and...
Read MoreOrganizing For Your Divorce
Divorce can be a grueling process and may require a significant amount of background work in order to be prepared. The sooner one starts doing that work, the better positioned they may be to move efficiently through the process. Some of that work can begin even before speaking with an...
Read MoreTips for discussing a prenup with your partner
Prenuptial agreements are becoming more and more common, especially among younger couples. Though they once held a stigma and seemed unnecessary for people who were not ultra-wealthy, prenups can be a valuable resource for all types of couples today. That said, if you are among those considering a prenuptial agreement,...
Read MoreWhat a parenting coordinator can do for you and your co-parent
If you find it difficult to communicate with your co-parent, a parenting coordinator can be a useful person to help effectively manage your children’s everyday concerns. In the face of a divorce, everyday parenting decisions can seem like an inefficient (and expensive) use of your time. Parenting coordinators are here...
Read MoreHow the reason for your divorce can affect your actual divorce
When two people divorce, there are likely numerous reasons each person could state for the demise of the relationships. Often, though, there is one primary event or behavior that ultimately pushes the relationship beyond repair. That reason can have a dramatic impact on the trajectory of the divorce process in...
Read MorePreparing to adopt? What to expect from the home study
If you are hoping to welcome a child or infant into your home through adoption, you should know that there are numerous steps to the process. For instance, most prospective adoptive parents in Pennsylvania will undergo a home study prior to adoption. The home study is the process through which...
Read MoreParenting coordination for custody offers an alternative to court
Divorced parents struggling to agree on or implement a parenting plan will soon have another tool at their disposal: parenting coordination. This process allows adversarial parents to work with a skilled coordinator who will help them try to overcome conflicts and make decisions about their custody issues. This form of...
Read MoreDoes everything have to change after divorce?
Divorce is undoubtedly a significant life event. As such, it typically results in a lot of change. People move, they have different financial resources and their lifestyle can change considerably. Some change can be a good thing, especially when it is a change from an unhappy or unfulfilling marriage. However,...
Read MoreParental alienation: What it is, what parents can do about it
A parent’s greatest fear in the wake of a divorce can be losing time and a quality relationship with their children. And unfortunately, divorce can adversely impact a parent-child relationship, especially if one parent engages in parental alienation. Parental alienation involves behaviors by one parent to create or foster an...
Read More4 things to avoid when going through a divorce
Divorce puts people in very difficult positions. Parties who once hoped to spend their lives together must not separate their assets, their time with their children and their lives. Therefore, people may do or say things they later regret. While every case is different, know that there are some general...
Read MoreCan courts later modify divorce agreements?
One option divorcing couples here in Pennsylvania have for addressing the many important issues in their divorce is to reach agreements on such issues. What if, after a divorce, a person feels that changing circumstances have made it so an agreement that he or she made with his or her...
Read MoreShould you keep the house after a divorce?
Buying a house is big step, and it can take a long time to make that house feel like a home. Now that you are facing a divorce, you may feel tempted to hang onto the place you worked so hard to make yours. Though keeping the marital home may...
Read MoreHow do alimony payments affect taxes?
An individual’s financial future after divorce can seem uncertain. If the final agreement includes spousal support, whether you pay or receive it, that question is likely on the forefront of your mind. Divorces in which alimony may be required that are finalized starting January 1, 2019 could be more complicated....
Read MoreWhat happens with gifts in a divorce?
During the holidays and at other times of the year, people can receive gifts that have considerable value, both emotionally and financially. When a person gets divorced, among the concerns he or she may have are worries about what will happen with cherished gifts he or she received in the...
Read MoreTips for celebrating the holidays with your kids after divorce
Many people are eager to get to a new year and put 2018 behind them. This could certainly be the case if this was the year you got divorced. However, first comes the holidays. And this season can be particularly difficult to navigate for the first time after divorce, especially...
Read MoreParents: Benefits of avoiding the courtroom during divorce
When parents divorce, one of their main concerns is typically how they can navigate this difficult event without causing unnecessary trauma for their children. However, parties also want a divorce that protects their own interests. Striking this balance can be complicated, but it may not be as difficult as you...
Read MoreHow could divorce affect your small business?
For small business owners, divorce can create a lot of anxiety. Owners or operators of start-ups, family businesses or even family farms can suddenly find themselves in complex, technical discussions on how to properly “divide” their business. Like many who go through a divorce, you may be unprepared for what...
Read More4 missteps that can cost you more than money during your divorce
When people divorce, they often focus on the financial aspect of the process. Yes, it costs money to end a marriage, and you will divide your marital assets. You may also, however, be confronted with decisions that affect more than your financial interest. If you are going through divorce, understand...
Read MoreCan you get a Protection From Abuse order for verbal abuse?
Abuse can come in many different forms. According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (NDVH), almost 20 people are physically abused in the United States each minute. Sadly, many of these cases of domestic violence begin with verbal abuse, which can have a lasting impact on a victim. In Pennsylvania,...
Read MoreWhat is a collaborative divorce?
People often expect that a divorce will be a long, bitter process. And for some people, it can be if they are hostile or dealing with especially complex issues. Often, these types of cases wind up in a courtroom. However, a divorce does not have to be this way. There...
Read MoreWhat to know about Income and Expense Statements
While divorce is largely an emotional and personal event, it is also a legal process. As such, it typically requires participants to fill out and submit a lot of paperwork. One such document divorcing spouses will need to complete is a financial accounting of each person’s income and expenses. This...
Read MoreCan your child ask their stepparent to adopt them?
It is possible that while scrolling through social media, you have found videos of stepchildren asking their stepparents to adopt them. If you haven’t, a quick search on YouTube for “surprise stepparent adoption” will produce a few tears. These heartwarming videos typically end with a stepparent opening a present with...
Read MoreStart planning now for co-parenting during the holidays
November means the start of the holidays is just a few short weeks away. Whether you and your family celebrate Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas, New Year’s or more, the holidays are a time of sentiment and tradition, typically spent with your loved ones. For families with divorced or separated parents, the...
Read MoreResources coming for PA grandparents who adopt grandchildren
Adopting a child is a joyous occasion for the adoptive parents and the adopted child. Often, the child is becoming part of a family unit after growing up without appropriate parental care. In other instances, a child’s previously stable home may have been abruptly disrupted by a parent’s criminal charges...
Read MoreChallenges can arise when modifying spousal support
If you pay or receive spousal support, you should know that it is possible to modify these orders as time goes by. After all, people can change, as can their needs and means. When a significant change occurs, it could warrant re-examination of support orders and possible modification. That said,...
Read MoreTips for protecting your privacy during divorce
Throughout the course of any divorce, parties share a vast amount of information, from their financial records to intimate details of their marriage. Many people would prefer that others not be privy to this information, and rules that took effect earlier this year in Pennsylvania regarding confidential documents and information...
Read MoreAre all mediation approaches the same?
Mediation is becoming an increasingly common way to resolve family law matters, from property division to child custody. This approach allows parties to reach mutually agreeable resolutions together and avoid the demands of litigation. However, there is more to the mediation process than people might realize. For instance, not all...
Read MoreWhat to consider when discussing child custody
Child custody orders are critical tools for parents who are not in an intact family, and securing a fair order should be a top priority when parents separate. While people might expect the courts to design these orders, oftentimes, it is the parents who do so through mediation or collaboration....
Read MoreWhat is the financial impact of gray divorce?
Trends show an increase in the number of divorces for couples 50-plus years of age. Known as gray divorce, these individuals face some unique challenges that younger divorcing spouses may not. One of the greatest challenges is the economic impact that gray divorce can have on a family. Learn why...
Read MoreWhich method of divorce is right for you?
Legally marrying can look very different for every couple. Some people choose to marry in a church in front of a pastor; some choose to have an ordained friend perform an outdoor ceremony; some choose to go down to the courthouse and get married by a judge. And just as...
Read MoreThe very real consequences of concealing assets during divorce
Any time two people divorce, there is the potential for one or both parties to make mistakes that make the process more difficult and contentious. Not only can certain missteps hinder negotiations in mediation and cause added stress on both people, they can also lead to far more severe consequences,...
Read MoreWhat are some examples of custody violations?
Parents with a custody or visitation agreement must comply with these orders. They are put in place by courts and are supposed to keep children safe. Unfortunately, there are times when a parent violates a custody order, intentionally or accidentally. In such situations, it can be crucial for the non-violating...
Read MoreWhat happens in divorce mediation?
If you are getting divorced, chances are it is the first time you have been through this process. You can understandably be nervous, scared and confused about what will happen and what you can expect. First, is it important to remember that you are not alone and you don’t have...
Read MoreHow will property be divided during your divorce?
When going through a divorce, you may have many concerns weighing on you. You are likely dealing with feelings of sadness or anger, or both. You may feel betrayed by your soon-to-be ex, or you may feel a sense of relief to be leaving a bad marriage. Even if you...
Read MoreCan we learn anything from celebrity divorces?
When people read about celebrity divorces in the news or tabloids, it can be easy to dismiss them as little more than salacious gossip. After all, frequently, these stories are based on speculation and unnamed sources who may have no real connection to the situation. That said, there may be...
Read MoreNegotiation tips if you are mediating your divorce
If you plan to utilize a mediator for your divorce, you should educate yourself about the process. While your attorney will be available outside of the mediation to give you advice and information, you will ultimately be the one making decisions in the room with your spouse and chosen mediator....
Read MoreIs it always wise to try and keep the marital home in a divorce?
Owning a home is part of the American dream. People often imagine getting married, buying a house and raising a family in it. It is also usually the single most expensive asset families own. Thus, it is no surprise that when spouses separate, the home is usually at the center...
Read MoreParents: Why it’s important to have formal court orders in place
When parents separate or divorce, the relationship may not end overnight. There can be a transition period where spouses attempt to reconcile or live separately in the same home. This may be ideal for two parents who want to spend as much time as possible with their children, but what...
Read MoreHow to know if you are being emotionally abused
Fighting is an inevitable part of most marriages and long-term relationships. Most couples simply do not agree about everything. However, there is a difference between getting into a squabble with your partner and facing emotional abuse at the hands of the one you love. Unfortunately, emotional abuse tactics can be...
Read MoreBack-to-school tips for co-parents
In a matter of weeks, kids across Pennsylvania will be back in school. If you are a parent, this can mean soaking in the last weeks of summer vacation with your kids and doing some back-to-school shopping. If you are a co-parent, however, you should also think about getting your...
Read MoreHow your age can determine alimony payments
Divorce can be a stressful process at any age it occurs. If you were not the primary earner in your marriage, it can place a large hindrance on your immediate and far future financial goals. However, age is an important factor that Pennsylvania courts consider when deciding the amount of...
Read MorePrenuptial agreements: A trend worth considering?
People in their 20s and 30s are unlike older generations in many ways, from their style and personal habits to their financial challenges and familiarity with technology. These differences extend to their relationships, as well. For instance, according to recent surveys, millennials are more likely to have prenuptial agreements than...
Read MoreWhat’s the difference between a closed and open adoption?
If you want to adopt a child, you have a lot of important decisions to make. One such important decision is whether you prefer an open or closed adoption. In this post, we will explain the differences between the types of adoptions and what you should consider before making any...
Read MoreHow can cryptocurrency complicate a divorce?
When it comes to divorce, owning cryptocurrency can complicate a situation that may already be delicate. Splitting typical assets such as other funds and properties may already be a challenge. Now, there is an intangible and very valuable asset that can create additional disputes. Bitcoin and similar cryptocurrencies are a...
Read MoreCo-parents: Your child might be ready for college. Are you?
Co-parenting or sharing custody of your child with another parent is undoubtedly a challenge. Just when you seem to get into a stable routine, something changes and shakes everything up. For instance, if your child is getting ready for college — or even just starting to think about it —...
Read More4 people who can help you through divorce
Divorce can be an isolating, emotional experience for many people, whether the split is amicable or contentious. You might be feeling scared, misunderstood and confused about your current situation and future, and you may not know what to do. Of course, friends and family members can provide immeasurable support during...
Read MoreCan you date during your divorce proceedings?
While it may seem premature or taboo, there is no law that prevents separated spouses from being in relationships with other people during their divorce proceedings. Your soon to be former spouse cannot prevent you from dating or even demand that you receive less property in your divorce simply because...
Read MoreWhat to know about termination of parental rights before adoption
Adopting a child can be a wonderful, life-enriching experience for any prospective parent. Whether you want to adopt a baby from across the world or the teenage son or daughter of your partner, becoming a legal parent to a child is an event worth celebrating. However, there are challenges along...
Read MoreHow long does it take to divorce in Pennsylvania?
The question posed in the title of this post is one of the most common questions people have when they or their spouse decide to file for divorce. Unfortunately, there is no set amount of time that it takes to divorce. However, there are certain statutes and factors that can...
Read More4 long-term benefits of alternative dispute resolution methods
It can be very difficult for people to think about life after divorce. Some people are devastated about the end of their marriage, others are so focused on the details of the divorce itself that it is all but impossible to think of much else. However, there is life after...
Read MoreHow to decide whether to file for a fault-based divorce
When you are going through a divorce, it is easy to blame the problems of your marriage on your soon-to-be-ex spouse. You may be justified in placing blame, if he or she cheated or treated you badly. In Pennsylvania, you can file for no-fault or a fault-based divorce. However, even...
Read MoreImportant tips for summer traveling when you share custody
Summer vacation is typically synonymous with relaxing, slowing down and enjoying more time as a family. However, as relaxing as we might want summer to be, it often takes some work to make it so — especially if you are a parent who shares custody of your children. For instance,...
Read MoreDon’t forget long-term financial goals during divorce
Divorce can change a lot about a person’s life, especially during the immediate transition out of the marriage. People typically move, shift to a co-parenting or visitation arrangement, and reassess their living expenses. On a broader level, divorce can also affect a spouse’s financial security and goals. For this reason,...
Read MoreCan an app make splitting the kids’ extracurricular costs easier?
It seemed like everything was finalized. You and your ex (and your attorneys) made child custody arrangements and determined child support payments. Now, there are things that you never talked about, including extra expenses for your children. Who is going to pay for soccer? What about paying for hobbies that...
Read MoreWho gets the pet in a Pennsylvania divorce?
People expect child custody cases to be complicated and contentious; they may not anticipate a similar experience when divorcing spouses are fighting over a pet. However, increasingly, animal companions are at the center of heated legal battles. If you have a pet and are getting divorced, then you may want...
Read MoreGrandparents: What to know if you want to adopt a grandchild
When people think about adopting a child, they often think about a young parent or couple looking to start or expand their family. However, there are millions of grandparents taking on the role of parent today. Often, grandparents seek to adopt grandchildren not out of a desire to become parents...
Read MoreWhat does custodial interference look like?
Sharing custody of your child with his or her other parent is not an easy situation, particularly if you do not like or trust that person. You might spend much of your time worrying if your child is happy and safe, and you can become understandably upset if your ex...
Read MoreNavigating Pennsylvania’s child custody relocation rules
Whether out of necessity to take a new job or simply based on a desire to move, there may come a time when a custodial parent wants to relocate with the child. However, Pennsylvania law prevents a parent from moving without the court’s authorization if the move will impact the...
Read More5 ways you could be sabotaging a peaceful divorce
There is no question that divorce is one of the most difficult events a person can go through. It can be physically, emotionally and financially draining, particularly when it drags on and becomes contentious. This is why it can be so important to opt for more peaceful means of divorcing,...
Read MoreBird nesting: A custody trend worth examining?
Child custody is not a new issue facing Pennsylvania parents. For decades now, it has been increasingly common for parents to split time with their children after divorce or separation. However, some custody arrangements today might look very different than they did a generation ago. Instead of the traditional plan...
Read More4 ways ADR can make divorce a little easier
One of the last things divorcing spouses may want to do once they have filed for divorce is to sit in a room and make very difficult decisions together. However, as upsetting as this might seem, working together in a neutral or collaborative setting could make this process a little...
Read MoreWhat factors can affect alimony awards in Pennsylvania?
Adjusting to life after marriage and divorce is a challenge. The emotional and social adjustment certainly is difficult, but so is the financial adjustment. This can be especially true if your ex (or soon-to-be ex) was the primary earner in your household. If you are in this situation, then you...
Read MoreImportant financial tips for later-in-life divorce
In recent years, many people over the age of 50 have filed for divorce. As the curve leans toward older Americans divorcing more often than younger Americans, it’s important to think about the ramifications of divorce on finances at different stages of life. One reason many prefer later-in-life divorce is...
Read MoreWhy spring is the time to think about summer custody plans
You might still be recovering from spring break, but summer is right around the corner. If you are a parent sharing custody of your child in Pennsylvania, then it can be wise to start thinking about any plans you or the other parent of your child have for the summer...
Read MoreHow divorce-related payments can affect your taxes
The deadline for filing tax returns is just around the corner. As stressful as this time of year can be in any year, it can be particularly stressful if you are recently divorced or separated. Divorce will likely affect several aspects of your taxes, from your filing status to various...
Read MoreDon’t believe these 3 mediation myths
When moving towards divorce, spouses are likely doing so with little knowledge about their options. Often, the information that they do have comes from internet searches, TV shows, and other third parties. Unfortunately, much of the information garnered from these sources is not accurate. In fact, there are a number...
Read MoreOn The Rise: Custody Disputes Over High School Football
A Pennsylvania man has gone to court to prevent his 17-year-old son from playing football. According to the New York Times, the case is part of a national trend. As public knowledge regarding the long-term effects of football injuries – and brain injuries in particular – has evolved, there has...
Read MoreDecisions you may not anticipate when developing a parenting plan
When most people think about child custody issues, they envision their ideal physical custody schedule. However, legal custody is also vital to consider.Most parents share legal custody of their children, though they might not recognize what this means until a child gets older or unless certain issues arise. In this...
Read MoreHow does property division work in Pennsylvania?
One of the most frightening and contentious steps in a divorce is dividing assets. When there is money, debt and property at stake, it is very common for divorcing spouses to get defensive and possibly angry. As such, disputes can and do arise. To avoid or at least minimize the...
Read More4 realities of litigating a divorce that you should understand
If you are considering divorce or have already decided to divorce, then you may be scared, angry and anxious. These emotions are undoubtedly painful and they can make you feel defensive and ready to fight your way to a resolution. People who are feeling this way as they head into...
Read MoreA divorce closer to retirement age requires careful preparation
Some estimate that as many as half of all marriages will end in divorce, which suggests that divorce is not limited to any particular age group, or other demographic. In any circumstance, separating spouses should consider the impact that divorce will have on their financial, emotion and physical well-being. These...
Read MoreSiblings who wanted to stay together may be closer to adoption
In Pennsylvania alone, there are countless children longing for a family and home of their own. For many of them, adoption may feel like a lifetime away. For one set of siblings in Kansas, however, the wait may finally be coming to an end. Almost 11 months ago, one state...
Read MoreCustody Orders: modification and enforceability
The ending of a marriage in a divorce is a difficult and emotionally complex time for all of the parties involved. The determination of child custody can likewise be just as troubling, especially for children and a parent who is not awarded primary physical custody. However, there are avenues a...
Read MoreUnderstanding open adoption
Until the last few decades the profile of adoptive parents changed very little. The typical adoptive family was a married couple who sought to adopt an infant. Now children of all ages are adopted by parents at various stages in life. As adoption profiles have changed, so have the nature...
Read MoreAdoption Credit program spared from the tax law ax
The tax cut bill passed in December makes positive changes to the way the Adoption Credit works. We are not tax lawyers, but we can describe, from a family law standpoint, how the program helps adoptive parents. An Adoption Credit program has existed for years. Its purpose has been to...
Read MoreDivorce using alternative dispute resolution
Though many people believe that divorce is synonymous with a long and protracted court battle, Pennsylvania families are able to settle their differences by using alternative dispute resolution. Alternative dispute resolution, which can sometimes be less taxing emotionally and financially, encompasses mediation, Collaborative Law, and cooperative practice. Some family law...
Read MoreMother records heartfelt message before son’s adoption
An unplanned pregnancy can bring about mixed emotions for a variety of reasons. Some parents-to-be are concerned about their lack of financial resources and personal support network. Others are concerned about being able to care for the new child and the children they already have. Sometimes, these circumstances cause parents...
Read MoreMore states considering the benefits of shared child custody
Several decades ago, it was typical for a family court judge to rule that the mother is the default parent and that fathers would be awarded the right to visit their child on a set schedule. That approach has been revised over the past few years as more courts are...
Read MoreDigital stalking becoming problem, especially during divorce
Years ago, if a suspicious spouse wanted to keep tabs on a partner, he or she might resort to hiring a private detective to gather evidence of infidelity or other breaches of trust. While this may have been unsettling for the target of the spying, it may pale in comparison...
Read MoreYour choice of divorce mediator could affect your negotiations
Perhaps you and your soon-to-be former spouse made the conscious decision to stay out of court. You want to use mediation to resolve your issues and reach a fair and equitable settlement. You both agree that this provides you with the best option for ending your marriage as amicably as...
Read MoreLawmaker touts benefits of collaborative law bill
The divorce process can be long, costly and emotionally draining. However, not every divorce must end up in a courtroom, as there are several alternative dispute resolution options available to separating spouses and parents. One Pennsylvania lawmaker recently extolled the benefits behind her new bill, which would help codify one...
Read MoreManaging special days when getting a divorce
After one family home splits into two, parents and children are tasked with celebrating special occasions and holidays in the context of a new family dynamic. Parents and children alike may be experiencing stress about the upcoming holiday schedule and both parents may worry about how to meaningfully celebrate a...
Read MoreRefinancing a home may be prudent after a divorce
When a couple decides that a marriage is no longer sustainable, they should consider and plan for the impact of a divorce on different parts of their life, including their financial stability. Where a couple purchased a home during their marriage, Pennsylvania residents should consider all options available to them....
Read MoreStepparent adoption is challenging and rewarding
Becoming a stepparent can be both challenging and rewarding. Sometimes, you are learning to co-parent with two other active parents. Other times, you are filling a void left by an absent or inconsistent parent. In those instances where you are performing duties a biological parent has failed to, you may...
Read MoreBoth reasons and trends for adoption have changed over time
Nationally, there are an estimated 100,000 children in the foster care system. National Adoption Day was recently celebrated as a way to draw attention to these children’s needs. According to historical notes, children were previously viewed as a contributing member of the household once they were old enough to work...
Read MoreTax code revisions could add to burden of divorce for many
Asserting that the tax code needs updating, Congress is currently working on revisions to tax laws that will likely have an impact on every Pennsylvania resident in one way or another. One component that may make the divorce process more complicated would directly impact the spouse who is ordered to...
Read MoreNFL player, Jimmy Smith, in midst of child custody dispute
Relationships among high profile athletes often come under intense scrutiny from fans, especially when those relationships do not end happily. These sports professionals often find themselves caught up in acrimonious child custody disputes filled with allegations that may or may not be true. Football fans living in Pennsylvania may be...
Read MoreNo fault doesn’t mean no reason when it comes to divorce
You’ve probably heard of (or perhaps even known someone who has experienced) long, drawn out courtroom battles marked by emotional outbursts, contentious debates and mudslinging between spouses as they fight their way through divorce proceedings. In fact, this description of divorce is so common that you might have felt a...
Read MoreCreative custody may be the answer to your stability worries
When you decided to pursue divorce, you may have immediately begun worrying about your children’s future. Perhaps stories of high risk behavior in children of divorce increased your anxiety level. On the other hand, you may know a few people whose children have seemingly fared quite well since their parents...
Read MoreWoman accused of running an adoption scheme
Couples who are unable to have their own biological children may always dream of becoming a family. In these situations, many may consider adoption as a way of providing a child with a loving home. Pennsylvania residents have many options, however, not every opportunity is what it seems. Recently, one...
Read MoreSome jobs may increase likelihood of divorce
By its nature, a marriage requires tremendous amounts of time and energy in order for it to survive — let alone thrive. Needless to say, if one’s occupation also requires an equal amount of time and energy, then it may not be surprising when a divorce ensues. While there are...
Read MoreStudy points to shared child custody as better option for many
Traditionally, when parents divorced, family court judges usually ordered that mothers would be the primary care provider and fathers would be relegated to part-time parenting. However, in spite of the intention to spare children the conflict that may erupt between parents, a recent study points to shared child custody being...
Read MoreAn adoption is not the only reason to terminate parental rights
Many Pennsylvania families are headed by one if not two biological parents. However, families can take many forms for a variety of different reasons, including adoption. In order for many adoptions to take place, the existing parental rights of a biological parent may first need to be terminated. While adoption...
Read MoreLawmaker seeks to modify how child custody time is determined
Marriages can be a blessing when things are going well or a curse when they are not. Some couples may decide that divorce is a better option, especially if minor children are frequently subjected to a hostile marital environment. However, the parents will be faced with making a parenting plan...
Read MoreShared parenting bucks the trend of sole custody
It may seem obvious to say, but most divorces involve conflict. However, you may find comfort in hearing that the conflict, while intense in the throes of divorce, typically fades during the years immediately afterward. Unfortunately, the child custody rulings made in the heat of conflict may remain in place...
Read MoreConsidering which assets are worth their costs in a divorce
While it is true that the end of a marriage is emotionally taxing, it still may be worth the effort to pay close attention to the financial aspects. Not every asset is worth its weight when the monetary costs of the divorce are calculated. Pennsylvania has its own laws regarding...
Read MoreAlternative dispute resolution may be a viable option at times
In most divorce cases, when two parties are at odds in a legal matter, it may be expected that a trial is the best option for resolving the issue. However, in many cases, alternative dispute resolution methods work well. There are several different options, and Pennsylvania residents may benefit from...
Read MoreAdoption may not be out of the question
There seems to be a common misconception out there that it is too complex and expensive to consider bringing a child in need of a home into one’s family. However, while the adoption process can be lengthy and involved, it may not be out of the realm of possibility if...
Read MoreHow grandparents can protect their access to their grandchildren
If you are a grandparent and are being denied access to your grandchildren, you are probably frustrated and heartbroken. It is unfortunate, yet common, for adult children to deny such access to grandparents, especially during emotionally charged disputes. A parent could be upset with continued financial support or wants to...
Read MoreHow to blend families while preventing parenting plan problems
If you’re one of many Pennsylvania residents who divorced in recent years, you may deserve a pat on the back for overcoming the challenges you likely faced in the process. Especially, if you’re a parent, chances are you and your kids have had to make several adjustments in lifestyle that...
Read MoreFault or no-fault: That is the question.
Whether you and your spouse married less than a year ago, or your wedding day is now decades past, you’d likely agree with other Pennsylvania spouses who admit marriage can be quite challenging at times. If you and your spouse have children together, certain marital and/or family problems may seem...
Read MoreWhen adoption is the best option
Most of us know a family whose lives have been enriched through adoption or an adult who was adopted into a loving family. What many people don’t understand are the decisions that come into play when adoption is the best option. One of the first things a family may decide...
Read MoreNo Fault Divorce
In a move designed to ease the toll that the divorce process takes on families, the state of Pennsylvania has amended its waiting period from one to two years, beginning in December 2016. Many people mistakenly believe that no-fault divorces always involve both parties agreeing to end the marriage. In...
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